Hawaii50 Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Wow a bunch of kids and women who whored out their life telling Easyguy to ignore it .... Facts are... guys dont want to turn whores into housewives. It doesnt work. We aren't suckers... Thank god Easyguy has a BRAIN and sees this. She didnt tell him about the one night stands, she threw it in his face. He's doing the right thing... Move Along... Nothing new here I'm just commenting on the irony of your Screen Name 1
xdahliax Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 I'm actually giving way too much lenience on this... A spade is a spade. A slut is a slut. Trust no bitch - there's some philosophical bullsh*t you can relate to, considering you have no hope understanding reality. A "slut" is not a "slut". I suppose we have different definitions of the word, but then again you seem to see the world in one dimension. A slut is not just a slut, "sluts" are people with motives, pasts, feelings and thoughts. You cannot define a person by their actions because you have no idea what has led them to act in a certain way.
AlexDP Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 A "slut" is not a "slut". I suppose we have different definitions of the word, but then again you seem to see the world in one dimension. A slut is not just a slut, "sluts" are people with motives, pasts, feelings and thoughts. You cannot define a person by their actions because you have no idea what has led them to act in a certain way. I don't care. I'm not judging them, I'm not defining them. I just don't want girls who have slept with lots of men.
xdahliax Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 I don't care. I'm not judging them, I'm not defining them. I just don't want girls who have slept with lots of men. You do realize that I did not quote you, right? 1
sweetkiwi Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 kids and women who whored their life away..... If i had whored my life away i'd have more money. I do it for free. Call it what you will. You know less than nothing about the posters on this thread. The only thing you can even guess about is based on what we've said on the internet.... anonymously. I was trying to give him real advice. Not tell him to dump her just because she's not a virgin. Are you a virgin? If you are then awesome. I hope some nice little virgin finds you one day. If not, i hope some nice girl who has no sexual history finds you one day and isn't so narrow minded that she can't forgive you of your sexual experience. Wow. Silly. I'm glad i'm experienced. But i'm even more glad that not all men have this insane whore/madonna complex. 1
AlexDP Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 You do realize that I did not quote you, right? I know, but it's the sentiment many men share. It annoys me that we have to explain it and defend it.
xdahliax Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 I know, but it's the sentiment many men share. It annoys me that we have to explain it and defend it. Yeah, well you annoy me. We can't always get what we want. I am actually quite conservative. I would not be thrilled to find out that my significant other had meaningless sex with a large number of women. That's besides my point, though. The way many people on this thread are dealing with the issue of promiscuity is saddening, it seems like you are unable to feel empathy for other people. But that's what the world has come to, in general. 1
sweetkiwi Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 yeah? Most? According to who? And how old are these men?
ThaWholigan Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 "Sluts" just can't win I have a question: Why shouldn't a "slut" have a monogamous relationship? Hypothetically speaking, if she wants one, and actually is able to be monogamous within an exclusive relationship? Granted, I'm not gonna be the white knight and say they're all saints, because they aren't. But where do we draw the line? 2
truth_seeker Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 or a husband. at least be fair. I agree. Cheating scumbags don't change their ways.
CarboniteCammy Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 How many is too many? I didn't realize there was a cut off.
ParadeRain Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 kids and women who whored their life away..... If i had whored my life away i'd have more money. I do it for free. Call it what you will. You know less than nothing about the posters on this thread. The only thing you can even guess about is based on what we've said on the internet.... anonymously. I was trying to give him real advice. Not tell him to dump her just because she's not a virgin. Are you a virgin? If you are then awesome. I hope some nice little virgin finds you one day. If not, i hope some nice girl who has no sexual history finds you one day and isn't so narrow minded that she can't forgive you of your sexual experience. Wow. Silly. I'm glad i'm experienced. But i'm even more glad that not all men have this insane whore/madonna complex. The way you try to justify being a slut makes me wanna puke in your mouth. look there's 2 types of girls... sluts and not sluts, if you're a slut then go and be a slut, you have no right to discuss relationships and heart break etc because you're a slut and your purpose is sex... no man will ever be your lover and protector because you're going to **** it all up by being a slut. Don't get me wrong, I love sluts, the world would be a bad place without them... But she's not going to be the one I live with, start a family with and love. She's going to be the one I call on a chilled week night to come round to my house while I lay back and let her take my mind off things...
sweetkiwi Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 the bigger question is who decides who these sluts are? How many people must one sleep with in order to be deemed a slut? Is there a gender bias as to the amount? And is there any amount of caulk sucking that can save me from slut hell?
xdahliax Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 The way you try to justify being a slut makes me wanna puke in your mouth. look there's 2 types of girls... sluts and not sluts, if you're a slut then go and be a slut, you have no right to discuss relationships and heart break etc because you're a slut and your purpose is sex... no man will ever be your lover and protector because you're going to **** it all up by being a slut. Don't get me wrong, I love sluts, the world would be a bad place without them... But she's not going to be the one I live with, start a family with and love. She's going to be the one I call on a chilled week night to come round to my house while I lay back and let her take my mind off things... Wouldn't that make you...kind of slutty? I hadn't read your previous posts, so now I regret ever trying to have a decent discussion with you. You can ignore what I said earlier and go on your merry way. 1
truth_seeker Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Everyone has a past. We all can agree on that. My thing is if you have too much of a past, then it's going to be an issue, for me at least. I'm not insecure but would be concerned if I could trust the person. If the woman was that easy or too promiscuous in her past, who is to say she wouldn't do it again in the future? Our passed experiences shape us into who we are presently and will be in the future. To have a long lasting relationship with someone, you need structure and stability. You can't have that with an unstable person. A woman has to have issues if she is going out sleeping with random strangers and going onto the next one. She is unstable. I don't see how she can be like this for years, then suddenly stop being that way. Eventually she will get bored living a straight-edge life and whore herself out again when the temptation comes along. Am I ranting? Yes. Just an opinion. 1
serial muse Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 The way you try to justify being a slut makes me wanna puke in your mouth. look there's 2 types of girls... sluts and not sluts, if you're a slut then go and be a slut, you have no right to discuss relationships and heart break etc because you're a slut and your purpose is sex... no man will ever be your lover and protector because you're going to **** it all up by being a slut. Don't get me wrong, I love sluts, the world would be a bad place without them... But she's not going to be the one I live with, start a family with and love. She's going to be the one I call on a chilled week night to come round to my house while I lay back and let her take my mind off things... Dude, I'm not trying to kick you while you're down, but...I've read your past posts. You've had your share of one night stands, meaningless sex, etc., etc. Unless you're fully willing to own up and say that you 100% believe that a double standard is justified for men and women, I'm not sure how you justify your black-and-white approach to this in your own mind. In other words, by your own standards, you would consider yourself a slut, and yet I think you think you're relationship material. And you're downright ANGRY that a woman who has done exactly what you've done would deign to think that about herself. Seriously, I know you're young, but this is worth some thought. 1
ffw Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 look there's 2 types of girls... sluts and not sluts, if you're a slut then go and be a slut, you have no right to discuss relationships and heart break etc because you're a slut and your purpose is sex... no man will ever be your lover and protector because you're going to **** it all up by being a slut That's a very inappropriate way to generalise a whole gender. How does it work for men then man-whore and non man-whore?
ParadeRain Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Wouldn't that make you...kind of slutty? I hadn't read your previous posts, so now I regret ever trying to have a decent discussion with you. You can ignore what I said earlier and go on your merry way. I felt that your first post to me was so utterly delusional I simply couldn't cluster up the energy to give it the mocking it deserved. But basically - if you're a slut then no... I will not respect you are a real human being with real feelings, I will respect you as a vagina.
serial muse Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 That's a very inappropriate way to generalise a whole gender. How does it work for men then man-whore and non man-whore? Sadly, I suspect Parade Rain is in the "it's different for men" camp. But then, he's only 20. 1
ParadeRain Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 That's a very inappropriate way to generalise a whole gender. How does it work for men then man-whore and non man-whore? It's socially acceptable to be a man-whore... kind of like black people using the N-word... Why is the grass green? that's just the way it is...
serial muse Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 It's socially acceptable to be a man-whore... kind of like black people using the N-word... Why is the grass green? that's just the way it is... Oh, honey. No. No, it isn't. Also, your simile is off. I think what you meant is that it would be like other women calling a woman a slut. (Which, frankly, I don't think is OK either.)
Hawaii50 Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 I will respect you as a vagina. LOL when was the last time you respected one of those?! 4
ThaWholigan Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 I felt that your first post to me was so utterly delusional I simply couldn't cluster up the energy to give it the mocking it deserved. But basically - if you're a slut then no... I will not respect you are a real human being with real feelings, I will respect you as a vagina. Jeez, you sound like my little brother. "Slags can't be a man's GF - they're everybody's GF". As crude as it was, it was funny. Although, nobody has answered my question. Is a "slut" screwed if she wants a monogamous relationship?
SensitiveTJ Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 The way you try to justify being a slut makes me wanna puke in your mouth. look there's 2 types of girls... sluts and not sluts, if you're a slut then go and be a slut, you have no right to discuss relationships and heart break etc because you're a slut and your purpose is sex... no man will ever be your lover and protector because you're going to **** it all up by being a slut. Don't get me wrong, I love sluts, the world would be a bad place without them... But she's not going to be the one I live with, start a family with and love. She's going to be the one I call on a chilled week night to come round to my house while I lay back and let her take my mind off things... Parade, while I agree with the general sentiment of what you're saying here, you lost me at this post. You can't rage against sluts for being sluts, and then turn about and admit you freely engage in casual sex with these same girls. That's not really logical. 2
ParadeRain Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Is a "slut" screwed if she wants a monogamous relationship? Yes.......
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