mammasita Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 Background: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/352956-struggling-lot-right-now So, the ex (or whatever he is right now) called me to see if I was leaving the area or staying here. Claims he is worried, and I believe he is.......I was pretty short with my answers. He said "I miss talking to you and hearing from you". I said "yeah, we'll talk later this week" and said goodbye. As much as I wanted to spill my guts, I refrained. I will talk to him later this week though (as long as sandy doesn't knock out the power )
InThePinc Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 Hi, I dont know the details of whats going on with you guys but I just wanted to say that i hope you can work it out and that you are ok!
taya Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 Thank you. am happy he at least called to see if you ok ..was he the one that left ?
Author mammasita Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 am happy he at least called to see if you ok ..was he the one that left ? Yes he is.
taya Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Yes he is. ok so now its time to play hard to get now just dont go right back in his arms let him work and miss you like crazy
River Rain Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 He's reaching out, it seems. As you know girl, I'm reconciled. He dumped me. But I saw some vulnerability in him, he reached out to me...we talked, I decided to give him a chance. I don't play games and I told him that, I was honest and genuine with my feelings. This encouraged him to do the same. Why not just talk to him openly and see what he has to say? There is always a worst case scenario, but there can also be new understanding of each other and a deeper connection. It's a risk, but I always think it's worth the risk. Sandy may well mess with me too this week! Silly angry hurricane 1
Author mammasita Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 I definitely plan on talking to him openly this coming week. I really wasn't prepared or expecting to hear from him today, but I was glad he was thinking about me.
River Rain Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 I definitely plan on talking to him openly this coming week. I really wasn't prepared or expecting to hear from him today, but I was glad he was thinking about me. Same with me, it was a total surprise and in my case turned out great. We had a really long talk, it was sincere and void of all negativity. I showed him lots of understanding and he was able to open up to me, and we figured out why things went the way they did. Even though he dumped you, it's not necessarily that he's over it or that he doesn't regret his decision. I hope things go well with you....and if they don't then you at least know and you'll be able to truly move on right?
Author mammasita Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 Same with me, it was a total surprise and in my case turned out great. We had a really long talk, it was sincere and void of all negativity. I showed him lots of understanding and he was able to open up to me, and we figured out why things went the way they did. Even though he dumped you, it's not necessarily that he's over it or that he doesn't regret his decision. I hope things go well with you....and if they don't then you at least know and you'll be able to truly move on right? Yes, definitely.
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