Jono85 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Well, after sending the email I got this message from a pay phone from someone tonight JADE HAS A BOYFRIEND THATS WHY SHE LEFT U HE HAS MORE MONEY THAN U SHE MET WITH HIM BEHIND UR BACK (Telstra Payphone SMS) How gutless is that. I don't know what to say right now. I'm just so hurt. how old is she? who do u think that is? her? a bf? or a friend? that's just weirdd..
dumPI Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Let me get this straight, for her to come back... She has to become interested in someone else, date them, sleep with them, have problems, break up, get over that guy and their break up, not rebound or meet someone else, all of a sudden remember your magical email which is going to make her want you back? If your magical email is that good, why isn't it working now? Why must all the other stuff happen before it's magic starts to work? Assuming it takes all of that other stuff to happen before your magical email works... What is your plan / what magic spell are you going to cast to keep her? Is it not better that she come back because of who / what you are and the relationship you once had? If so, let that do all the talking for you. gibson, could you send me an email at webdezero at yahoo dot com so I can contact you as I still can't PM. Thank you in advance!
Tree_Salmon Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Painful Life Lesson. Right now you are devastated... Wait till the Anger Stage hits and you read the email you sent her again. You will lose your mind! Now you understand why ParadeRain said this... For the rest of you considering contacting someone who dumped you, before you hit send... Be aware, you could get the following back: "don't be mad because New Guy is so cute, ripped and has been f'ing me so good. Did I mention how big his dick is...my own Greek god. Btw we are dating. The other day when we were having sex New Guy told me how he wanted to have my baby and how good I would look pregnant it was so hot....you have lots of problems but my only problem is deciding what date I'm gonna marry New Guy this summer" Taken From: Dumper who responded nice and sweet for a while (Most Don't) and the Dumpee kept chasing until the Dumper finally dropped the above bomb on him. Don't chase after someone who dumped you. Don't contact a Dumper and tell them how great, amazing and special they are. All you are doing is rewarding them for dumping you. Not to mention, they may not respond back and if they do... It can be as bad as the two examples above. Consider Yourself Warned! Wow that sounds like something my ex would say to her old boyfriends when her and I got together. Some girls are cut throat.
gonefishin Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Wow that's a bloody harsh text to get ... There is one positive you now don't keep checking your email 50 Times a day waiting for the reply . Take this as the kick you needed to get up and pull yourself together. And hope when she sees/hears from you next time your doing so well that stings like her text cause you won't care you'll have moved on. Remember that text too if u get weak and feel tempted to call or mail. But in your phone delete it and truck on!
Simon Phoenix Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Painful Life Lesson. Right now you are devastated... Wait till the Anger Stage hits and you read the email you sent her again. You will lose your mind! Now you understand why ParadeRain said this... For the rest of you considering contacting someone who dumped you, before you hit send... Be aware, you could get the following back: "don't be mad because New Guy is so cute, ripped and has been f'ing me so good. Did I mention how big his dick is...my own Greek god. Btw we are dating. The other day when we were having sex New Guy told me how he wanted to have my baby and how good I would look pregnant it was so hot....you have lots of problems but my only problem is deciding what date I'm gonna marry New Guy this summer" Taken From: Dumper who responded nice and sweet for a while (Most Don't) and the Dumpee kept chasing until the Dumper finally dropped the above bomb on him. Don't chase after someone who dumped you. Don't contact a Dumper and tell them how great, amazing and special they are. All you are doing is rewarding them for dumping you. Not to mention, they may not respond back and if they do... It can be as bad as the two examples above. Consider Yourself Warned! This is exactly why I wrote mine out for my own benefit, just to get my thoughts on paper (or on screen to be more accurate) and never sent it. I looked back at it the other day and facepalmed myself, even though as letters like this go, mine was actually pretty matter of fact. It was pretty complimentary of her though. But yeah, if I was to send a letter now (which I'm not obviously), it would have a lot more of an edge to it.
Tree_Salmon Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 This is exactly why I wrote mine out for my own benefit, just to get my thoughts on paper (or on screen to be more accurate) and never sent it. I looked back at it the other day and facepalmed myself, even though as letters like this go, mine was actually pretty matter of fact. It was pretty complimentary of her though. But yeah, if I was to send a letter now (which I'm not obviously), it would have a lot more of an edge to it. Letters are pointless. Silence always speaks much louder. Writing a letter out for yourself is a different story.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Letters are pointless. Silence always speaks much louder. Writing a letter out for yourself is a different story. 100 percent agree. Silence has worked wonders for me in the past.
Author MrAurora Posted October 25, 2012 Author Posted October 25, 2012 Well guys, do I feel like the biggest sucker in the world. Gibson, Calico and others were all right. You know what, I thought there was truly good in people. I wish I had never transferred $5,000 into her bank account, and I wish I had never written such an emotional email where I put whole heart out there. Some good things though that I will get some pleasure out of doing over the next 24 hours, and i'm sure everyone here will be rooting for me with this.. I own her Iphone and am having the IMEI blocked today so it becomes nothing more than a paperweight. She works at my best friend's business, he is sacking her today And the guy she is hooking up with is an ugly sucker and I wish her all the best with him while he ****s her and then ****s her off. At least I have some ammo for inflicting a fraction of the pain she has inflicted me. That message "JADE HAS A BOYFRIEND, THAT'S WHY SHE LEFT YOU HE HAS MORE MONEY THAN U AND SHE MET WITH HIM BEHIND YOUR BACK" As much as it is hurtful, its something that has come from someone who doesnt think much of her actions over the past months... I have never been about money or any materialistic things in the relatioship so its a prick of a thing to say. This has given me the anger to take on the world now. Thanks to everyone for the help and support. Wow, I can't wait to get over this ****.
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