Sugarkane Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 We used to have a friend in my friendship group. I went to high school with them. We were friends with this girl. Then she met someone who already had kids. She claimed he was in his late 20s but he looked twice as old. Things moved very quickly. They got pregnant ( she was 20/ 21). Then engaged. She never wanted children before, so I wondered what the rush was. She had only just become a step mum. Quite a step. I was the only one that went to engagement. I thought my friends/ her other friends our age would be there. she completely ignored me and I was bored to death. I wondered why she did that. That made me mad, I was the only friend who bothered to come. my old friends and I had tried to keep in contact with her. She always blew them off. My friends got sick and tired of it. In the end I did too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sugarkane Posted October 12, 2012 Author Share Posted October 12, 2012 People seem to think it's the single friends that cut off someone who gets pregnant. In my case it was The opposite. Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 It's sad when friendships end. But it seems clear that she doesn't want to be a part of your life. I suggest that you respect her decision. You can't force her otherwise. Link to post Share on other sites
JVWood Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 I think you should just probably forget about her, I mean you've tried, your friends had tried. Like the person above said that she doesn't seem to be a part of your life, if she was a true friend or one that you keep around or count on whenever you need her, then she would do that, but this isn't the case, you probably deserve a friend that actually does that instead of wasting time on trying to keep in contact with this friend of yours. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sugarkane Posted October 13, 2012 Author Share Posted October 13, 2012 (edited) Thanks. But I wonder why she completely cut everyone off after meeting this guy. Very unhealthy. Guys never do this. For someone who never wanted children she quickly got step children and pregnant right away. Odd. I also wonder why someone like my ex who is arrogant with a superiority complex, yet still had his friends from high school. How dies that work when he's an Ahole who treats people like $hit? Edited October 13, 2012 by Sugarkane Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 the guy told her to, possessive guy talked her into it Link to post Share on other sites
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