Necris Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 This is a semi update to the http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/350022-oh-snap-cold-approach-worked thread. I still haven't met her again, but I have been over to her place and since she wasn't there I gave her a note since I don't have her phone number, basically telling her I came over and it includes where I live and my phone number, so I guess I should just wait to see what happens?
xdahliax Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 Yup, it's probably better that way. Now you guys can actually have a phone conversation. I'm glad that you still have all your organs
Author Necris Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 Yup, it's probably better that way. Now you guys can actually have a phone conversation. I'm glad that you still have all your organs But since I still don't know her number I guess I'll have to wait to see if she calls back as it may look silly to keep coming over there, if she doesn't call back I guess then I'll know the answer.
xdahliax Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 But since I still don't know her number I guess I'll have to wait to see if she calls back as it may look silly to keep coming over there, if she doesn't call back I guess then I'll know the answer. It would look silly if you went back. Let her call you.
carhill Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 So, try it yourself and cold approach one person tomorrow. This one is a dry hole until you see black gold bubbling out of the drill hole. Drill other holes. Dirt is everywhere. 1
Author Necris Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 So, try it yourself and cold approach one person tomorrow. This one is a dry hole until you see black gold bubbling out of the drill hole. Drill other holes. Dirt is everywhere. Oh but carhill I do and it does nothing. The only few times I was ever able to get a date in my life was through social circle and that also works terribly.
carhill Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 That's OK. Better that than hanging a bunch of swag on this random point of interest by an unknown female, IMO. Does what you think you should do next match up with what you know to be your style of prosecuting relationships and intimacy? Presuming you feel your style is healthy for you, examine that. You left a note. IMO, don't invest more than that. In fact, dismiss this thread without prejudice and move on. This episode is concluded. Watch that 'care' carefully
Author Necris Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 It would look silly if you went back. Let her call you. yeah that's what I'm going to do. If she doesn't call back she's not interested. As for the organ thing that would have made a most excellent news worthy piece
Author Necris Posted October 11, 2012 Author Posted October 11, 2012 (edited) I do have a question why do you think she seemed interested in me or at least seemed interested initially from my point of view? Edited October 11, 2012 by Necris
xdahliax Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 I do have a question but why do you think she seemed interested in me or at least seemed interested initially from my point of view? She was probably interested at the time, she didn't have to give you any of her info. Maybe she has changed her mind, or maybe she'll call you tomorrow. It's hard to know, especially considering that she has already behaved oddly by giving you her address instead of her number. Wait and see what happens.
somedude81 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 IMO it was one of those strike while the iron is hot things. A week was just too much time.
Author Necris Posted October 11, 2012 Author Posted October 11, 2012 IMO it was one of those strike while the iron is hot things. A week was just too much time. It was more like 5 days, but I guess I should be thankful I got sick who knows what would of become of my kidneys .
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