Necris Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Though more accurately I actually didn't approach, a cute girl cold approached me today:cool:. Just when I was feeling hopeless:laugh:. It was certainly unexpected while I was taking the elevator, listening to my headphones and I was feeling pretty sick so not really in the mood to approach women, this nice girl approached me and we engaged in conversation for a few minutes (by this time we were walking down the street) and she seemed really interested in knowing more about me but I had to leave as I really had somewhere to go at the time and she even gave me her address to where she lived and seemed to want to potentially see me again. So your thoughts Loveshack? What should I do?
Balzac Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Honestly, you'd have to verify the address. You didn't mention if this was on a campus. What kinda girl hands over her residence address to an unknown guy? You could have a little fun w a note or something though. 1
Author Necris Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 She was probably just being nice. perhaps, though the address is real (decided to check it since I had some doubts).
ascendotum Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 perhaps, though the address is real (decided to check it since I had some doubts). Address is real, but who lives there...angry meth heads or your cute girl. I'm a little sceptical of a cute girl handing you her address after a few minutes when you are a 'hard luck harry' when it comes to romance, but still you got to follow this up. Hopefully she will not be into Amway or a Jehovah Witness. 'cold approach worked'....yeah when it F to M its a different story, still this will be a good story for those sappy romantics who love to say, just be yourself, and when you least expect it, love will find you. Here's hoping you become a believer in that.
johan Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 What do you do?! If you are interested, then get in touch with her. If you aren't, don't. She's not a crocodile. 2
MrCastle Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 A cute girl approached you and then gave you her address? Hmmm...yeah I don't know about that one.
SmileFace Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Why an address and not a phone number? Or fb or aim. How did this even happen. "Here is my address, send me a letter". 3
kae Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 you were cold to her and she gave you her address. I think she is crazy in the head. if you want to play an ******* douch in this relationship so she can love you then go ahead. But if you want to be affectionate and nurturing too then all bets are off here. look for someone who is not crazy hot or cold but someone who is warm. Crazy hot is problems.
Author Necris Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 you were cold to her and she gave you her address. if you want to play an ******* douch in this relationship so she can love you then go ahead. Wait...What? How did you that impression? I didn't do anything wrong. Sorry I don't think I posted enough info in the OP so I'm going to clear things up a bit so this doesn't sound too crazy. As for how I got her address it went sort of like this: Me: Nice meeting you [her name] but I really must go, hope to see you again sometime. (Unfortunately I didn't ask for her number I somehow forgot that part, but luckily she gave me her address) Her: Nice meeting you to [my name] I live [address] maybe you can come over some time. Her address is a dorm room on campus which probably made her feel secure giving it out and it did make it easy to verify.
Author Necris Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 Do you live on campus ? yes, that I do.
somedude81 Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Hey, just check it out. Why not just drop by tomorrow like around 2 pm and see what happens. Post about it afterwards.
kae Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 oh.. dorm is way different!!! ok so she`s chill and thinks ur probably cute. and mr. polite.. you were not being cold!!! hehe..kids!!
todreaminblue Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Though more accurately I actually didn't approach, a cute girl cold approached me today:cool:. Just when I was feeling hopeless:laugh:. It was certainly unexpected while I was taking the elevator, listening to my headphones and I was feeling pretty sick so not really in the mood to approach women, this nice girl approached me and we engaged in conversation for a few minutes (by this time we were walking down the street) and she seemed really interested in knowing more about me but I had to leave as I really had somewhere to go at the time and she even gave me her address to where she lived and seemed to want to potentially see me again. So your thoughts Loveshack? What should I do? you never know unless you take the chance....do yourself a favour dont talk about hypnotising chickens...as a cold approach its a bit out there......instead ask her if you can SHOW her how to hypnotise a chicken .....never mind.....the chicken part.....just tangenting..... go see her......do it ...nike told you to....JUST DO IT.....and so am i telling you too...leave out the chicken story.....deb
Mrlonelyone Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Why an address and not a phone number? Or fb or aim. How did this even happen. "Here is my address, send me a letter". Because in the bizzare world we live in there are many who feel their actual physical address is less personal than their FB, AIM or cell number. Believe it or not. These days some people can't afford any of those things either. @necris You could just knock on her door at some time on a well lit weekday afteroon when people tend to be home. She gave you her freaking address.. WTF are you suppose to do write a letter?
Pyro Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 The giving an address thing is new to me. Someone said it already but go there and see how things go. Worse case scenario you have a new pen pal.
Author Necris Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 Because in the bizzare world we live in there are many who feel their actual physical address is less personal than their FB, AIM or cell number. Believe it or not. These days some people can't afford any of those things either. @necris You could just knock on her door at some time on a well lit weekday afteroon when people tend to be home. She gave you her freaking address.. WTF are you suppose to do write a letter? I'm going to try to come over to her place tomorrow evening and hopefully we could hang out or something. Though I did have the idea of giving her a note but I'm not sure that sounds kinda silly.
Pyro Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 I'm going to try to come over to her place tomorrow evening and hopefully we could hang out or something. Though I did have the idea of giving her a note but I'm not sure that sounds kinda silly. A note is on the same level as sending her a text to make plans.
ascendotum Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 (edited) I'm going to try to come over to her place tomorrow evening and hopefully we could hang out or something. Though I did have the idea of giving her a note but I'm not sure that sounds kinda silly. imo, don't use txt to ask this girl out. She took the initiative to strike up a conversation with you and gave you her address. She did you a big favor and made it easy for you (you called her cute so I am going with the thought she is not desperate for anyone). Stay with her style and don't hide behind your phone, and take her up on her offer to come by and see her. When there makes plans to go out somewhere. Let us know how it goes. (If its Friday evening you plan to see her, maybe txt her beforehand in case she has plans for the night) Edited October 4, 2012 by ascendotum
Author Necris Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 Guess I have to wait another day to go over:(, for some reason I'm feeling even sicker today than yesterday with a throbbing headache, slight dizziness, nose running like a faucet (snot is just pouring out), sore throat and occasional cough. Guess my body is like "Want to go see a girl? What!? Lol Nope!:D"
SmileFace Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Because in the bizzare world we live in there are many who feel their actual physical address is less personal than their FB, AIM or cell number. Believe it or not. These days some people can't afford any of those things either. No reason to repeat this but everyone could afford an email address. Plus find me a young girl in college who doesn't have one. May not use it but she most likely has one. I still find it creppy - however she gave you the address and you both live on campus. I say pay her a visit - it's your choice. I seen this happened when I lived in student housing - well my internship housing.
CptObvious Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 This can only go 2 ways: 1. Necris dies after getting his organs harvested 2. Necris gets aids 1
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