Necris Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 (edited) Okay I met this girl or rather she met me, who seemed like a nice girl, we talked for a few minutes and she gave me her address but no phone number so I was going to go visit her, problem is I have no game plan at all (besides knock on the door and say hello I'm at a total loss on what to do) so any ideas or tips on what to do when I get there? I don't want it to seem super awkward just natural. Also this is the situation I was talking about: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/350022-oh-snap-cold-approach-worked As for why I haven't visited her yet, I came down with some sort of sickness making me sick for the whole week but I'm about over it now. Edited October 8, 2012 by Necris 2
NateC Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Treat it like a first date. Just be yourself and act completely natural - like you're visiting a friend (only well, not). Everything else will just flow.
xdahliax Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 (edited) I don't know what type of girl she is. You can come up with a few ideas like going out for dinner or taking a walk and let her choose, you could bring Starbucks and a board game, you can drive her to your favourite thinking spot... PS: Ask MrCastle, he seems to have a whole bag of tricks Edited October 8, 2012 by xdahliax
Author Necris Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 I don't know what type of girl she is. You can come up with a few ideas like going out for dinner or taking a walk and let her choose, you could bring Starbucks and a board game, you can drive her to your favourite thinking spot... Honestly I don't really know what type of girl she is myself she approached me and we talked for about maybe 10 minutes and then she told me where she lives, before that day I don't recall ever seeing her before.
xdahliax Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Honestly I don't really know what type of girl she is myself she approached me and we talked for about maybe 10 minutes and then she told me where she lives, before that day I don't recall ever seeing her before. Btw, I think it's really odd that she gave you her address but not her phone number. I'd be much more worried about giving my address to a random guy than my number.
CptObvious Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Bring a short barrel assault rifle, a full face gas mask, heavy ballistic armor, a helmet, and some condoms. That way you'll be prepared for anything that can happen.
Author Necris Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 (edited) she's probably going to take your kidneys I know it does sound odd, but I highly doubt my kidneys are in danger:lmao: Edited October 8, 2012 by Necris
Author Necris Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 (edited) Anyway guys serious answers here, I'm about to meet this girl, I don't have a phone number, I have only known her for 10 minutes and she told me where she lives, game plan suggestions? Edited October 8, 2012 by Necris
somedude81 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 As for why I haven't visited her yet, I came down with some sort of sickness making me sick for the whole week but I'm about over it now. A week later and you haven't seen her? Tough luck about getting sick. Frankly, I don't think she'd remember you at all. If you still want to try your luck go to her place and then invite her to get something to snack on.
Michal2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 You have to go there house and make your relation on way. Make her friend talk gently and make sure to impress her.
Author Necris Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 A week later and you haven't seen her? Tough luck about getting sick. Frankly, I don't think she'd remember you at all. If you still want to try your luck go to her place and then invite her to get something to snack on. it may have been my body's way of preserving my kidneys. Anyway jokes aside, I'll still go over but I have to think of a time where she is most likely to be there but at the same time not at night as that may look more awkward, got to play it cool and casual, too bad I don't know her at all as that would make things easier as I could come up with a plan that suits her while at the same time looks casual and not awkward for example if she was heavily into video games I could suggest playing games and that would look normal, it would be fun, and provide a time to "connect" or something.
ThaWholigan Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Did she not provide you with a number or contact details? Weird. Anyway, I met a girl at a dorm so it's probably not anything too weird on her part in that regard. Just stay cool and relaxed, don't think too much and have fun.
oaks Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Okay I met this girl or rather she met me, who seemed like a nice girl, we talked for a few minutes and she gave me her address but no phone number so I was going to go visit her, problem is I have no game plan at all (besides knock on the door and say hello I'm at a total loss on what to do) so any ideas or tips on what to do when I get there? Introduce yourself to remind her who you are. Invite her on a date at a specific time/place. Swap phone numbers this time. Leave. I'm suggesting this because most people don't do 'first dates' at someone else's house (although maybe there are different societal norms when it's a dorm room... I'm out of touch with that).
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