Beatrixx Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 (edited) I posted this thread earlier today: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/349923-ex-had-suddenly-started-using-twitter-what-best-thing-me-do Just now I posted a tweet asking if anyone wants to play an Xbox game online with me when I buy it next week. My ex tweeted back 'raises hand...' What is he playing at, seriously? It seems like he's trying to play with my head. Why can't he call me and explain how he feels if he is having regrets instead of sending me these lame texts and tweets? Obviously he's not having regrets.... he just wants to mess with my head!! Should I ignore this tweet? This is his third attempt reaching out to me this week and I'm starting to feel rude ignoring him, but I DID tell him NOT to contact me again and I really want to stick with NC. Edited October 3, 2012 by Beatrixx
geegirl Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 All the advice on your attached thread will be the same on this thread. There's no point in asking the same question different ways hoping for different responses. You want us to tell you to go ahead and break contact, go ahead. You don't listen to what we tell you so do what you need to do and whatever happens, hopefully you'll learn from it. He wants to get a reaction since you are ignoring you. Nothing is more uncomfortable than someone silencing you. His ego can't take it. You are not being rude. You stated your position. He busted that boundary rather than respect it. The only one being rude is your ex. The kind thing for an ex to do when they know they've hurt you is to respect your need for no contact so that you can heal. He does not care even when you have requested for NC. Besides, the guy dumped you. He should having something of substance to say if his contact means anything. Lame attempts through tweets and crap means nothing. Stop complaining about it. Either you block or you open the door. He's not going to stop. Only you can do that.
TaraMaiden Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I posted this thread earlier today: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/349923-ex-had-suddenly-started-using-twitter-what-best-thing-me-do Just now I posted a tweet asking if anyone wants to play an Xbox game online with me when I buy it next week. My ex tweeted back 'raises hand...' What is he playing at, seriously? It seems like he's trying to play with my head. Why can't he call me and explain how he feels if he is having regrets instead of sending me these lame texts and tweets? Obviously he's not having regrets.... he just wants to mess with my head!! Should I ignore this tweet? This is his third attempt reaching out to me this week and I'm starting to feel rude ignoring him, but I DID tell him NOT to contact me again and I really want to stick with NC. So...... you haven't read the responses in your other thread then, about blocking him? You didn't read what folks took the time, effort and trouble to help you with? You're unaware of what people have already advised? Forget this thread. Read your other one, it's really a good read. Honest.
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