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I don't feel like that to be honest. I think I could be in a proper LTR - emotionally speaking. I don't really feel like I'm missing out. I recognize things about myself that would prove to be obstacles (i.e. I like a headstrong girl - if it's even remotely a challenge to get her, I want her more).

I know at some point I want to be in a relationship but I guess I got that thought going on in my mind now. Another thing is I got hurt really bad by someone and honestly it still affects me. It's just too hard for me to invest myself emotionally to someone. I talk about that here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/300804-how-can-i-control-my-emotions-while-dating-2.html#post4276500

Honestly I am just too scared to take that step. In some ways being out here banging married women, women with boyfriends, and single women seems the best option for me right now. Part of the reason that situation happened to me was because I in some way believed I was unattractive to women. I took a lot of sh*t from her because I thought for a long time no one else would want me.

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Also, married women are easy, it's like shooting fish in a barrel

 

As for women with boy friends, if she is single, and attractive, there is almost always a guy friend.

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