Sun Devil Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 Im a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I used to not have any confidence, but for the past few months, I have been going outside to meet people. However, I am still not able to get a girlfriend. I am 5 feet even and currently 125 lbs.
tori0001 Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 The guy I have started dating is not tall, but to me it doesn't matter. He's a tiny bit shorter then me, about 5/4. I love his personality. He's charming, very smart, and he's been all over the world, and has a lot to offer in terms of being well traveled. I think imho, if a man has a lot to offer in other places, how to you are wont matter.
tori0001 Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 sorry for the typo, how tall you are wont matter.
silicone Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 OP, I'm 5'2" and about 112lbs. I have a girlfriend. She was initially attracted to me because of my personality (we met online in a chat room). When she saw me for the first time, she fell in love with me, and described as being perfect. To the right girl for you, it won't matter. Just keep being positive. PS, one thing she loves about me is that I won't give up on anything or anyone. 1
yongyong Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 obviously you have to work on it 10x harder than 6ft guy to find a girl who will like you.
zanesfan Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Confidence, confidence, confidence. I used to work with this guy who was 4'11". He must have banged at least 10 women I worked with. And he wasnt cute at all. But his confidence and personality won these women over. And these women ranged from cute to beautiful.
rocketman122 Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 OP, I'm 5'2" and about 112lbs. I have a girlfriend. She was initially attracted to me because of my personality (we met online in a chat room). When she saw me for the first time, she fell in love with me, and described as being perfect. To the right girl for you, it won't matter. Just keep being positive. PS, one thing she loves about me is that I won't give up on anything or anyone. Said the fella who posts: Just feel so unattractive as a short guy
Ghisop Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 I love that you posted this! My best guy friend is I believe 5'5 and he was always real worried about it. I think girls naturally do like a taller man, but that doesn't mean you get a great girl to notice you. He is just a great guy and once he put himself out there he was shocked how Many girls were after him. My sister prefers short men, and I have found she's not alone. I think you just need to be yourself and show girls what a great guy you are. I'm in my 30s and looking for a great guy and hang ups I used to have in my 20s seem pretty unimportant now.
silicone Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Said the fella who posts: Just feel so unattractive as a short guy Read it, you'll see that I'm not in lack of praise from other people. There's a reason I feel unnattractive as a short guy: the Internet. Barring that, I'm a great guy. Oh, did I mention that I'm taken with a girl who's trying to pursue me.
Author Sun Devil Posted August 27, 2012 Author Posted August 27, 2012 Thanks for the replies. I am curious if using pick up artist materials would be a good idea since some pua's are short guys
Fitz Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 Run away from the loveshack dating forum and never look back. In other words, don't let the snarkiness of the internet (OLD, pessimistic forum posts, etc.) poison your mind.
ptp Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 Thanks for the replies. I am curious if using pick up artist materials would be a good idea since some pua's are short guys I say read and apply anything you think will get you a girl. PUA stuff can help as it teaches you to control your reactions in certain stressful situations. BTW, I was out for a bit today and saw some cute girls who were very short. I am sure they would like someone more your height. I don't know if ethnicity factors into your dating, but one girl looked Hispanic and the other was Filipino looking. Maybe you will have more luck with certain ethnicities?
rocketman122 Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 Read it, you'll see that I'm not in lack of praise from other people. There's a reason I feel unnattractive as a short guy: the Internet. Barring that, I'm a great guy. Oh, did I mention that I'm taken with a girl who's trying to pursue me. First, you posted that exactly after I posted the statement "... intimidated when I tower over you" which shows you have low self esteem. 5' 112lbs..I would be too. its not the internet that makes you have no confidence and no self esteem, its you because youre a shrimp. if you need praise from others to feel good or the fact that you say, im a great guy, it says youre looking for acceptance. it also says you should go see a therapist to help you with that. you will always have this issue. deal with it, you puwssy. and your gf statement seals that. pathetic.. a blowup doll doesnt constitute having a GF. if you really had a GF then you wouldnt need to post crying threads here about height issues. "but I have a GF and she's pursuing me" nonsense.. reminds me of the other pathetic thread of your shrimpy brother in arms. Bang! Scored my hottest girl so far.
silicone Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 First, you posted that exactly after I posted the statement "... intimidated when I tower over you" which shows you have low self esteem. 5' 112lbs..I would be too. its not the internet that makes you have no confidence and no self esteem, its you because youre a shrimp. if you need praise from others to feel good or the fact that you say, im a great guy, it says youre looking for acceptance. it also says you should go see a therapist to help you with that. you will always have this issue. deal with it, you puwssy. and your gf statement seals that. pathetic.. a blowup doll doesnt constitute having a GF. if you really had a GF then you wouldnt need to post crying threads here about height issues. "but I have a GF and she's pursuing me" nonsense.. reminds me of the other pathetic thread of your shrimpy brother in arms. Bang! Scored my hottest girl so far. Wow. I am not easily intimidated - I come into contact with people who are taller than me almost every single day of the year in my job. I'm 5'2" and I'm trying to lose weight. I don't look that weight, I look around 130lbs. Heck, one of my best friends is 6'5". Yep, I'm not intimidated by height. Why would I be? I did collegiate wrestling and I was at the top of my weight division, and I was also in the weight division above my class. Regardless of what you call me, I'm not seeking external validation. You, on the other hand, are - as evidenced by your thread. You obviously feel the need to put me down based on your own insecurities. Last time I checked, which was less than a week ago, my gf is living - made out of real flesh and blood. Maybe you're confusing the girl you "scored" with a blow up doll? I mean, I wouldn't blame you. I simply stated a fact. It is your prerogative to understand it or not. Evidently, the latter occurred. I am not short of praise from my peers. What I lack, is the ability to see myself in the same light that others do; yet I am objective. Ponder on that for a moment prior to replying.
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