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PhillyDude Established Member

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ONLINE?

 

So many femalles want to exchange 56 messages until they feel comfortable to talk on the phone. what the hell is the big deal about giving a guy your number? If he starts acting crazy then you use the CALL BLOCK FEATURE

 

 

Why is this so hard? Or is it just that the females in philly are slightly retarded?

Emilia Established Member

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Why is this so hard? Or is it just that the females in philly are slightly retarded?

 

:laugh: it's hilarious how you always think it's everyone else who is retarded ... :laugh::laugh:

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phineas Established Member

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You know what's retarded?

 

That this guy even gets women to respond to him.

Seriously.

 

I must look like quasimodo or something because 80% of the women I message don't even look at my profile. LOL!

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You know what's retarded?

 

That this guy even gets women to respond to him.

Seriously.

 

 

You actually believe he does....? :confused:

Emilia Established Member

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You know what's retarded?

 

That this guy even gets women to respond to him.

Seriously.

 

I must look like quasimodo or something because 80% of the women I message don't even look at my profile. LOL!

 

You know what monsters I know in real life that have success in OLD? A lot depends on your standards, you have never seen this guy's profile either

durentu Established Member

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Basic economics I think...

 

The fun of 'hide and seek' is MUCH more fun than actually being 'found'

 

I name my price before I start.

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Why don't you just give them your number instead?

 

:confused:

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Why don't you just give them your number instead?

 

:confused:

 

I tried that and they don't want to talk so soon. Maybe they think my d*ck is going to come through the phone:D

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What some of these dumb B*tches don't realize is you will only get a feel for my character if we chat on the phone. How the f*ck can someone develop rapport over texting and emailing?

 

 

BTW: This is only happening on the FREE sites. When I pay for a site a woman is not hesitant to chat on the phone if we establish we are attracted to each other and have some things in common

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Then stick to the paid sites silly.

 

I don't understand it cause I don't mind talking on the phone. You can get so much more said than messaging.

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Then stick to the paid sites silly.

 

I don't understand it cause I don't mind talking on the phone. You can get so much more said than messaging.

 

 

I'm not working so I;m trying to save money for when I do go out. But meeting on a free site is more challenging

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Now that you've identified the problem, what are you going to do about it? Don't let it get to 56 messages next time. I use these phrases: "let's meet for a drink" or "what's your number? Mine is nnnnn. Let's talk" and anything other than clear progress in that direction is responded to with "I'm not looking for a pen pal" (and then wait to see if/how they respond).

 

Some people are just not there for dating, or don't like me enough to date me, and there's no reason to let it get to 56 messages to discover that!

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Now that you've identified the problem, what are you going to do about it? Don't let it get to 56 messages next time. I use these phrases: "let's meet for a drink" or "what's your number? Mine is nnnnn. Let's talk" and anything other than clear progress in that direction is responded to with "I'm not looking for a pen pal" (and then wait to see if/how they respond).

 

Some people are just not there for dating, or don't like me enough to date me, and there's no reason to let it get to 56 messages to discover that!

 

 

I;m thinking that it may have something to do with females being on the site through their phone and it's more fun. I;m on my computer and it's not as exciting

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OP I bet your messages are about as smooth as crawling on four miles of glass.

 

I don't try to be smooth because that's my personality. If a see a female I;m attracted to I will just send a message saying hi, my name is and ask her where she is from and so on

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Well then you answered your own question. It is your own personality. 100 other guys are sending the same message with hello my name is and your attractive. What makes you so special tha you deserve a response or a phone # ?

 

Sometimes I may send something silly which has gotten me replies back with a lol

 

 

"I hope I;m not being too forward but can I have a kiss?"

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Dude, you have no game. You have a bad attitude. And you need a reality check. Seriously. Ture story.

 

How do I get game? I been wondering for years? How does gain GAME?

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Go visit a Dave & Busters.

 

 

Can you give a example of what to say in my first message?

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I am not Mr. Miyagi, and you are not Daniel-Son, I don't share my swagger with anyone. It took me a long time to discover myself and how to be successful if you realize your faults and try and work on them they will fall into place.

 

 

Well get the F*CK out of this then since you want to criticize and not help

 

 

You go to be one of the stupidest mutherf*ckers I have seen on this board

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Me ? You are the most socially inept boys (not man) I have ever seen on this board. How was your last weekend ? The girl with the sick father. How did it feel to sit home and do nothing while she was getting railed by someone who emailed her something other then "hey wanna kiss". No wonder why you have a zero percent success rate with dating. You are socially weetodid.

 

 

Well maybe I will email a woman......."Do you like sucking long d*cks?

 

 

How's that for SWAGGER

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Well maybe I will email a woman......."Do you like sucking long d*cks?

 

 

How's that for SWAGGER

 

Only if you send a photo so she knows you aren't bluffing. Girls love that.

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The funny thing is she might actually like it, but just not yours. If you didn't have the social skills of Warren from Something About Mary. You would be good to go. Franks and Beans!

 

Who is the F*ck is warren? Are you retarded?

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Well, to answer the original question, before I back away slowly...

 

Philly, the people you are describing are what I called Timewasters. Men did that, too. Wanting to chat endlessly via email and MSN or whatever. I got wise to that, and stopped allowing it. If a guy did not ask to meet (or talk on the phone), i.e., want to move the potential connection to the next level after four email exchanges, I would stop responding. I would also stop responding if I suggested a meet or a phone call and got nothing back.

 

It's quite simple.

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Well, to answer the original question, before I back away slowly...

 

Philly, the people you are describing are what I called Timewasters. Men did that, too. Wanting to chat endlessly via email and MSN or whatever. I got wise to that, and stopped allowing it. If a guy did not ask to meet (or talk on the phone), i.e., want to move the potential connection to the next level after four email exchanges, I would stop responding. I would also stop responding if I suggested a meet or a phone call and got nothing back.

 

It's quite simple.

 

 

Yeah I will try that tonight

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Well, to answer the original question, before I back away slowly...

 

Philly, the people you are describing are what I called Timewasters. Men did that, too. Wanting to chat endlessly via email and MSN or whatever. I got wise to that, and stopped allowing it. If a guy did not ask to meet (or talk on the phone), i.e., want to move the potential connection to the next level after four email exchanges, I would stop responding. I would also stop responding if I suggested a meet or a phone call and got nothing back.

 

It's quite simple.

 

This blows my mind.

What kind of man would spend time online chatting instead of meeting?

I've never known people to do that.

 

I give it a week of emails then tell them i'd like to meet them & go from there.

If they don't want to meet or speak on the phone by then I stop talking to them.

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Probably better to just end this.

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