dark1san Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Most women I've gone out with, been in relationships with, have been somewhat experienced. Just started seeing someone serious, and we've made out, tonight I tried to take it one step further and she seemed willing, got almost right there and I saw the look in her eyes that she was scared. I was like "Omg, I am so sorry I didn't mean to scare you, are you ok?" And she said,"I'm fine, me being the innocent type isn't just an act." I promised her I'd take things slow with her, I felt bad because like I said most women I've been with have been experienced, and this one is honest to truth innocent in that sense. I wanted to meet a nice woman for once in my life, and have. I feel happy about that. 1
thatone Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 she's ready for that, by what you're telling us. go ahead with it and downplay it after, imo.
Author dark1san Posted August 21, 2012 Author Posted August 21, 2012 I wasn't asking what should I do, I was just saying that I've never been with someone who's 29 and not "fast" like the other women are.
Balzac Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Perhaps she is purely inexperienced but I'm betting on "issues" present having led to developmental delays. Not saying you won't enjoy her but I'd be wondering many things. Just my two cents.
yongyong Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 This slutty single mom had scared looks too. I bit her shoulder as part of a play and she started crying lol. To be honest, real innocent girl doesn't say things like this LOL "I'm fine, me being the innocent type isn't just an act." you can trust her all the way. that's your business though.
zig Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Go for it. If it's not you it will be someone else. She'll lose her virginity eventually so why not with you?????
mortensorchid Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Well ... Good for you if this is the case. Hope good things happen, whatever they are.
yongyong Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 hey Mr jesus, what's up? those actions are against your moral right? ROFL I thought they executed Ted Bundy
Author dark1san Posted August 21, 2012 Author Posted August 21, 2012 I had a feeling from the beginning when we first went out she was different than others I've gone out with, I can read people fairly well. Like I said I've just never dated anyone where I was going to have to take it slow with her. Just going to do the right thing, and not force it and enjoy a relationship instead of ruin it with sex right off the bat.
thatone Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 you've been believing too much of what you hear women say. sex = attachment for them. the only reason they're worried about that is they will lose their sense of control over you in their own mind. it has nothing to do with you at all.
RedRobin Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 ... and responses like the above are exactly why women should wait to get to know the guy. Men who push for sex are trying to 'lock in' with the sex before the woman figures out what a real douchebag he is or can be. Lots of guys don't want to wait for that very reason. They know they are a-holes that can be easily seen through if sex doesn't happen ASAP... or are control freaks themselves... thinking they can control her once sex happens. OP, if you are looking for a relationship, I'd say it is always best to wait until you both feel comfortable. There are lots of ways to avoid being 'friendzoned' that don't involve trying to push a woman past her limits to see what you can get away with (unlike lots of the guys here who think it is cute....).
Author dark1san Posted August 21, 2012 Author Posted August 21, 2012 I know I'm not in the friend zone with her, it's something about her I just really can't explain in words. She's been "into" me since the first date. I asked her about how nervous she was the first time we met, and she was like,"I have a problem that I think people won't like me when they first meet me, and I saw you and thought to myself, he looks too cool, he's not going to like me and was very nervous the whole night." To the men on here, there are truly decent, kind, innocent women out there. I don't know what skewed views you have garnered over the years, I know if anything I should have super skewed views of the females in our society after how my previous two relationships ended, but I don't. I love women, and I truly found a honest to god good natured woman who's not all about hurting men and playing games. And is sweet and innocent.
comedox Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 i think she feel something different about you , to be the first one ...... she love u
Emilia Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 I wanted to meet a nice woman for once in my life, and have. I feel happy about that. so you equate timidity with nice? Interesting
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