Rough day + Been talking to someone.. do I tell about the BU?

[lovehurts82]

Having a very rough day today. Still can't quite wrap my head around all that's happened.. still find myself wondering about things.. wondering if he'll come back around.. wondering if I'll ever find someone that I related to as well as we did. I wonder why he's chosen her over me? Why he's agreeing to do things with her that he'd never with me.. He says in a way they've been in love for years.. Perhaps they were destined to be anyhow? Ugh.. so much going on in my mind. I'm contemplating starting a blog.. getting this all out from the beginning. As crazy and chaotic as things have been, it might be rather entertaining to reread in the future. Anyone have any further feedback? I can't wait until these bluesy days end.

 

Good news though, I've been talking to a guy.. he's actually the older brother of a couple guys I went to school with. At the moment, I can see him as someone MAYBE to hang out with now and then, not quite sure. I'm scared to death of it! I've been trying to keep things moving slow though.. we've only texted/ talked on the phone. If nothing else, it's good to have friends in your corner. At what point do I mention the hell I've been through this last month? I've not mentioned anything so far and just tried to keep positive and lighthearted.

[CarrieT]

At what point do I mention the hell I've been through this last month? I've not mentioned anything so far and just tried to keep positive and lighthearted.

 

You can just say that you've gone through hell recently and are a bit bruised and cautious. Leave it at that until you are fully into a relationship before spilling an entire story.