BWM Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 So me and my ex are both nearly 18, we spent 6 great months together with many special moments and we both thought that it was time to settle down together, we was both completely in love right? No, when we was together she messaged 'friends' behind my back on a number of occasions which i didnt approve of (flirty messages etc) which made me very angry upset and betrayed as you can imagine right? well anyway I ended up telling her I need space after she did it for the 3rd time and then we just ended up never getting back together. It's been 4 months now since that happened and well lets say I haven't been the best of ex's as she was my first love i really wanted to fix things with her and silly me I thought I could do this by sending her a number of phone calls text messages and messages through facebook obviously this didn't go down well with her or her family. Around 2 months ago she blocked me of facebook then 3 days ago she unblocked me a day after our last phone call, we both agreed that we won't talk to each other as her head is messed up so I havent contacted her for a week so far. But can I ask just one thing, why would she unblock me after months and after we both agreed not to speak to one another? I would really like to get to know her again and get back with her eventually as she is the best thing that has ever happened to me so what do I do? I also have another question do I just ask her straight forward is their a chance that me and you can be an item again? As i wouldnt mind being mates then if it leads to another relationship eventually? Do i ask this then continue NC or just continue NC but i just don't want to wait around for another couple of months to find this out! (sorry its a bad post first one) replies will be welcome thanks!
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