Author frederickkk Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 im not thinking with my trousers at all..... i genuinely love her. just going to have let life take its course, and update here when she breaks NC
TaraMaiden Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 ... and when you don't reply, respond, react or give her the time of day, ever again..... Right...?
Author frederickkk Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 i wish i could do that,,have the balls to, but im weak, and i love her.
Author frederickkk Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 she loves me, i know it, but wants to mess around
TaraMaiden Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 No, you're just weak. I don't think you love her. You love the idea of being in love with her. She checked out ages ago, but is still yanking your chain - because she can. And because you want her to. Love~pain is better than nothing.... And you love the pain, because, hey, being kicked in the teeth is still better than nothing. I don't mean to be nasty, but really hun, you sound pathetic..... Re-read this whole thread. Pretend you have no idea who the OP is. He's a complete stranger - like I am... just posting.... Read 'his' comments... See what you think.....
veggirl Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 she loves me, i know it, but wants to mess around no she doesn't. people in love dont want to mess around. their partner is what they want. 1
Author frederickkk Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 ok, well the following has happened past 24 hours. i phoned her, left ans machine to apologise for being ****, stressy at uni etc. phoned again, she picked up. i apologised further. we then talked about her and me, careers etc. she gave me both her home addresses, and told me to keep my mobile number. i said to her coffee, ill or want to talk, phone me. comfort blanket for her...bad but if i get to see her in person, well i can quiz her. i then finish the call, i know if i dont go back to uni, i want a life with her, so i phone her, give her the ultimatum, she tells me to do my exam and phone her on friday....she sounded excited by the proposition...however, she may have got with someone, and as a result, doesn't want to see me in person for this reason. i want to send her an email now (feeling waves of loss) , but resisting to... thoughts? is she indecisive?
TaraMaiden Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Thoughts: I'm not going to bother telling you what i think. Bye. 1
Crila16 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 She's 19 years old. Who knows what they want at 19 years old? I didn't. I still don't and i'm beyond 19.
Sav Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Thoughts: I'm not going to bother telling you what i think. Bye. agree with TaraMaiden. Waste of time. Why bother creating a thread if you're going to listen to YOURSELF. go talk to a mirror
Author frederickkk Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 well, im definitely not deluded. she definitely loves me.
Author frederickkk Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 should i email her telling her im physically sick?
Reegs Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Listen to everyone else. Go No Contact. Start to respect yourself more. Your just hurting your own cause by acting like this. By sending an email that says your getting sick...your going to make her feel bad for you? I dont know about you...but I wouldnt want someone to be with me cause they felt sorry for me.
Author frederickkk Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 i get what your saying, but if i do that, then she keeps going other direction, when i know deep down she doesnt want this. i just know it.
Author frederickkk Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 by mssging her, it keeps me in her mind. ive got uni exams. if i dont get through them, im out. i will have to go abroad to get over her. cant be in the same area as her.
Reegs Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 absence makes the heart grow fonder. concentrate on yourself....and if she comes back it will be for the right reasons.....not you trying to make her feel sorry for you. all your doing by messaging her is reminding her your still around and she has a safety blanket that is nuts about her. additionally...she is 19. honestly man...hate to say this...if this doesn't happen now...it will happen in 6 months...or a year..... be happy it happened now...and your not wasting more of your time on something that is headed no where.
Sav Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 lol i give up. delusional + self-denial + refusal to heed advice. Just crash and burn and we'll see you back here for now, tata
TaraMaiden Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 is he still whingeing? I've put him on 'ignore'....
Author frederickkk Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 reegs you are right. i just want her to know how i am feeling. she has to know i am changing as a person. she is teaching me a lesson
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