Cinnamon Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 (edited) Men, If you are looking for a long-term R, could you please rate the qualities of women as potential dealbreakers? 1. Age - too old, older than the age you want (probably, for guys around 40s - the same age or older than they are; for guys around 20-30s - older than they are) 2. Weight - (she is kind of fat) 3. Face - (from too plain to unattractive) 4. Height - too short (< 5'3") 5. Legs - short or fat or too slim 6. Breasts - too small 7. Personality - smth is a little bit wrong about her personality Edited August 18, 2012 by Cinnamon
Titanwolf Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 Personality would be my only deal breaker, but it would depend on the flaw in her personality. Disorders aside, I couldn't deal with a defeatist or a possessive woman. The rest don't phase me. 1
ptp Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 For absolute deal breakers: 3 7 2 With 2 being obese, not kind of fat and 7 because if I don't like her personality why am I in a relationship with her?
Balzac Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 Funny list in many respects. I would think that to contemplate a long term relationship, most of your criteria would be moot. I'd have to have dates with a potential and after the first few dates, intellect and emotional/psychological stability come into play. Your criteria play more to sex appeal and speaking for myself~no ex appeal no first date.
ThaWholigan Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 2 or 7. Possibly 3. Those would probably matter to most guys to a small extent. I like big girls though, but not TOO big. Personality is more of a compatibility thing.
Author Cinnamon Posted August 18, 2012 Author Posted August 18, 2012 Funny list in many respects. I would think that to contemplate a long term relationship, most of your criteria would be moot. I'd have to have dates with a potential and after the first few dates, intellect and emotional/psychological stability come into play. Your criteria play more to sex appeal and speaking for myself~no ex appeal no first date. Right, but, without the sex appeal a girl is not going to get the first dates:lmao: and, later LTR.
Greznog Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 Men, If you are looking for a long-term R, could you please rate the qualities of women as potential dealbreakers? 1. Age - I can't do over ~25 2. Weight - Yeah I can't deal with fat women, or chubby ones for that matter, or thick ones. 3. Face - Attractive face is very important. 4. Height - Not a problem unless she has some sort of genetic defect. 5. Legs - Need to be proportionate. 6. Breasts - Breast size doesn't bother me all that much, barring there being nothing or triple Z it's really not a big deal. 7. Personality - No bitches or emotional wrecks. That about sums it up.
salparadise Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 Men, If you are looking for a long-term R, could you please rate the qualities of women as potential dealbreakers? 1. Age - too old, older than the age you want (probably, for guys around 40s - the same age or older than they are; for guys around 20-30s - older than they are) 2. Weight - (she is kind of fat) 3. Face - (from too plain to unattractive) 4. Height - too short (< 5'3") 5. Legs - short or fat or too slim 6. Breasts - too small 7. Personality - smth is a little bit wrong about her personality Wowee... you sure are distilling things down aren't you? For me it could never be as simple as this, so here's how I think about it... There would need to be a combination of attractive qualities before I'd even be interested to begin with. I don't know exactly what features combined in what way are the magic key but I know it when I see it. It usually starts with an attractive face. That's what gets me looking her way. Yes, a really nice ass or tits are great but if she doesn't have a nice looking face... The rest is the unknown combination. Personality is the big thing. I don't mean personality in a superficial way like bubbly or quiet. I mean who she is at the core, values, integrity, etc. If I discover that a woman has disingenuous tendencies, even in small matters, she a goner. I will not tolerate that crap ever again. Yes, I learned that one the hard way. Next is interests and chemistry. Gotta have something in common to make it work and there has to be some real spark and not just a bunch of flattery (which can be faked too easily). The rest... weight, height, legs, breasts are all secondary. Other than obesity I don't think they make any difference at all in fact. Nicely balanced is a good thing but none of these are deal breakers if the top priorities are holding my interest.
Author Cinnamon Posted August 19, 2012 Author Posted August 19, 2012 Please, men, answer my question! I also would like to hear the opinion of older men!
Bristolius Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Please, men, answer my question! I also would like to hear the opinion of older men! I'm 52. Only number 7. She'd have to be kind and have general good will towards others, not sour or mean. Why are you lurking in the bushes? 1
rocketman122 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Why are you lurking in the bushes? she must be practicing for an indian music video HAHA JK
rocketman122 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 1-I only date older woman so its not an issue. im 40 and the woman im dating is 49. had LTR with a 52/55 and short one with a 60. age means nothing to me. some of the woman I date put younger woman to shame. 2-how fat? a little tummy..mmm I like. I like skinny, or average. but she needs to have a small frame. not a big frame heavy girl. I want to carry her to bed or do air acrobatics with her when in bed. If I can curl her weight, were good. 3-this is something thats important to me but my sister and mom say I do have weird taste and sometimes choose woman who arent the most attractive. 4-I dont want to date tall woman, so not an issue. im 6'1" so the minimum is 5' max is 170cm 5-not an issue. 6-not an issue. ive dated woman with small breasts and woman with big breasts. doesnt matter. dont want to come across implants though. huge turnoff. must have a nice ass I can smack. not so flat. 7-we must have the same mindset. need compatibility. so i'll rate out of 1-10 how important these things are in a woman 1-0 | 2-7 | 3-8 | 4-6 | 5-2 | 6-4 | 7-7 hope that helps
jcrew11 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 I think the biggest deal-breaker if it came down to marriage or LTR would be her ability to be a wife/mother. If she wants kids and she would be good a taking care of kids and raising kids. Some of the girls you meet are crazy party girls that don't seem responsible or mentally stable enough to care for young children. I think that is the most attractive quality for women, is her ability to raise a child because most men want to start stable families. I think that is why nurses and teachers are so attractive to men because they are caring, compassionate, and nurturing women.
Author Cinnamon Posted August 19, 2012 Author Posted August 19, 2012 I think the biggest deal-breaker if it came down to marriage or LTR would be her ability to be a wife/mother. If she wants kids and she would be good a taking care of kids and raising kids. Some of the girls you meet are crazy party girls that don't seem responsible or mentally stable enough to care for young children. I think that is the most attractive quality for women, is her ability to raise a child because most men want to start stable families. I think that is why nurses and teachers are so attractive to men because they are caring, compassionate, and nurturing women. Thank you! It is good to know that personality is more important than appearance and sex appeal!
carhill Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Historically, whenever I have proactively discontinued association with a woman, it has been due to factors relevant to her personality and emotional style, so #7 would be my sole dealbreaker amongst the group offered for discussion.
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