Caius Ballad Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Most Black women think you're less masculine. Many White women like Hollywood black guy stereotype. Asian-American much like white women go for the ultra masculine type. Asian-Asian women won't are scared of you (Most fear what parents will think) So if you're a very short thin black guy who happens to dress normal and you're a Anime/comic/tech nerd don't expect women to like you. PUA guys will basically tell you to become Black stereotypes. White guys will think you have it easy and women in general are against you. Other Black guys if they're the stereotype will belittle you. Key words: Short and Skinny. From what I can tell is that black women are extremely harsh on short skinny lighter skin black men who are into comic geeky stuff. It seems like Western society never stops bullying/shaming black men if they're not acting ultra masculine like the Dumbasses on TV.
Imported Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 You should get a sex change. It is obviously too difficult for you to be a man. 1
Author Caius Ballad Posted August 17, 2012 Author Posted August 17, 2012 You should get a sex change. It is obviously too difficult for you to be a man. No need to be a jerk.
Fitz Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 1. Get a good job and make good money. 2. Find women who are beyond the age of college. 3. Work out regularly. Geeky anime is a tough crowd. There aren't many girls in it in the first place. Plus many of the girls will be after white guys or asians. I'm not sure how old you are but after college, women start putting stability/money higher on the priority list. Plenty of 30+ women will be happy with a good bread winner. Meanwhile, get rid of the gut and build your muscles. You're skinny, right? If you can get a six pack, and nice pecs/shoulders there is a woman somewhere who will bang you/ date you. Despite the fairy tales we've all been fed, the game of attraction is a competition. It's the same for humans as it is for wild animals. Sure it isn't fair, but if you want to be happy you have to compete. So your options boil down to this: give up and quit or fight! The onus of your own happiness is on you. So will you be the lion or a mouse? 1
Almond_Joy Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 1. Get a good job and make good money. 2. Find women who are beyond the age of college. 3. Work out regularly. Geeky anime is a tough crowd. There aren't many girls in it in the first place. Plus many of the girls will be after white guys or asians. I'm not sure how old you are but after college, women start putting stability/money higher on the priority list. Plenty of 30+ women will be happy with a good bread winner. Meanwhile, get rid of the gut and build your muscles. You're skinny, right? If you can get a six pack, and nice pecs/shoulders there is a woman somewhere who will bang you/ date you. Despite the fairy tales we've all been fed, the game of attraction is a competition. It's the same for humans as it is for wild animals. Sure it isn't fair, but if you want to be happy you have to compete. So your options boil down to this: give up and quit or fight! The onus of your own happiness is on you. So will you be the lion or a mouse? Fitz is spot-on - really nothing else to add. Except to note that whining about the majority not liking you as you are isn't helping your situation.
Hornachero Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 There is a great book by Junot Diaz called "The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao". It's about a non-stereotipical dominican who tries to date in NA. You should read it!
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