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You are the only one doing the bashing. The rest of us, while disagreeing, are simply disagreeing.

 

 

:lmao:

 

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Posted
No it's not.

 

It's taking advantage and borderline pedophilia.

 

Having an issue with your partner's repeat focus on young women and a focus on pedophila are two different things. Just because a woman is "legal", why do we make the assumption that a woman automatically has to think it's great if her partner os looking at legal women? I have seen other men on this board talk about how they are a certain age and they just aren't attracted to women that are signicantly younger. No one perscutes them. But when some women talk about the issue that a man's interest in younger women can present for her, you got to be snarky and dismissive. How does that help anything?

Posted
I'm just tired of your constant male bashing on here, all of course with nothing whatsoever to back it up

 

Then you have the audacity to claim that you're not a male basher even when tons of WOMEN tell you that your views are complete nonsense

 

I know people disagree with me, but not many people tell me my views are "complete" nonsense.

 

I am sorry you can't have an honest discussion with me and instead feel the need to be abusive. I'd prefer for us to talk even if you don't agree with what I say. I don't think me saying that I think men are overall more shallow than women, more often, makes me a "male-basher". If I said all men were horrible pigs, that would make me a "male-basher". I am just pointing out something I encounter with men regularly. That alones doesn't qualify as "male bashing".

Posted
Having an issue with your partner's repeat focus on young women and a focus on pedophila are two different things. Just because a woman is "legal", why do we make the assumption that a woman automatically has to think it's great if her partner os looking at legal women? I have seen other men on this board talk about how they are a certain age and they just aren't attracted to women that are signicantly younger. No one perscutes them. But when some women talk about the issue that a man's interest in younger women can present for her, you got to be snarky and dismissive. How does that help anything?

 

English is not my first language, you will have to present your ideas in a more simplified way, you literally lost me.

Anyway, i agree with you, guys as high as 50 or more take advantage of barely legal girls.

Posted
I know people disagree with me, but not many people tell me my views are "complete" nonsense.

 

 

No, lots and lots of people - including women - regularly tell you that you are 100% wrong on this site

 

 

I don't think me saying that I think men are overall more shallow than women.

 

 

You say this as if it's the gospel truth with absolutely nothing whatsoever to back it up. I can post tons and tons of websites with women salivating over beautiful male celebrities and you'll act like this doesn't exist

 

 

It's very very infuriating from the male perspective. Personally I think all of your views are complete nonsense. You're just as bad as the idiots on here who think that all women want is a millionaire male model

 

 

Wake up, there's a reason that 99% of men on here to go along with tons of women disagree with your ridiculous views

Posted
No, lots and lots of people - including women - regularly tell you that you are 100% wrong on this site

 

 

 

 

 

You say this as if it's the gospel truth with absolutely nothing whatsoever to back it up. I can post tons and tons of websites with women salivating over beautiful male celebrities and you'll act like this doesn't exist

 

 

It's very very infuriating from the male perspective. Personally I think all of your views are complete nonsense. You're just as bad as the idiots on here who think that all women want is a millionaire male model

 

 

Wake up, there's a reason that 99% of men on here to go along with tons of women disagree with your ridiculous views

 

:rolleyes: Noone's views are 100% wrong. Most people on this forum who complain about something have a point that comes from their experience, the only problem is they generalize their own issue or are unable to look at it from different perspectives. They also are very resistant to other point of views that might come their way.

 

DY sometimes raises some great points that can be discussed. Her issue is that she thinks all women are like her whereas we're all different.

 

PS: Tons of studies back her up in saying that women overall are less shallow about looks. So she does have evidence.

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You say this as if it's the gospel truth with absolutely nothing whatsoever to back it up. I can post tons and tons of websites with women salivating over beautiful male celebrities and you'll act like this doesn't exist

 

 

It's very very infuriating from the male perspective. Personally I think all of your views are complete nonsense. You're just as bad as the idiots on here who think that all women want is a millionaire male model

 

 

Wake up, there's a reason that 99% of men on here to go along with tons of women disagree with your ridiculous views

 

Here is a good article I made a topic out of about how men perceive women's weight vs how women perceive men's weight and how each gender perceive's their own weight.

 

article

 

I think this factors pretty well into standards for women's bodies vs mens

Posted
:rolleyes: Noone's views are 100% wrong. Most people on this forum who complain about something have a point that comes from their experience, the only problem is they generalize their own issue or are unable to look at it from different perspectives. They also are very resistant to other point of views that might come their way.

 

DY sometimes raises some great points that can be discussed. Her issue is that she thinks all women are like her whereas we're all different.

 

PS: Tons of studies back her up in saying that women overall are less shallow about looks. So she does have evidence.

 

 

I appreciate your comments mesmerized.

 

I guess it's not that I think all women are like me but I guess I do think most women are like me. I think I am pretty typical.

Posted
Here is a good article I made a topic out of about how men perceive women's weight vs how women perceive men's weight and how each gender perceive's their own weight.

 

article

 

I think this factors pretty well into standards for women's bodies vs mens

 

Women are just as picky about mens height that article doesnt prove men are more shallow

Posted

PS: Tons of studies back her up in saying that women overall are less shallow about looks. So she does have evidence.

 

 

And plenty of studies show that women are more shallow about income/status

 

 

Being more shallow about income is somehow more noble than being shallow about looks?

 

 

 

:rolleyes:

Posted
Women are just as picky about mens height that article doesnt prove men are more shallow

 

It's not even a matter of being picky. It shows that men even judged women with low or normal BMIs as over weight where as these men were less harsh on their own bodies.

Posted

 

PS: Tons of studies back her up in saying that women overall are less shallow about looks. So she does have evidence.

 

Data can be miscontrued to show ... anything really.

 

The only thing you can truly fallback to some extent is your perception of reality.

And in my perception of reality, men are not the choosers, women are.

When i understood this and modified myself in regards to this, i started getting results.

 

Women are overall more shallow about looks.

 

However, we men view 'looks' differently than women. Same word, different meaning.

Posted
Here is a good article I made a topic out of about how men perceive women's weight vs how women perceive men's weight and how each gender perceive's their own weight.

 

article

 

I think this factors pretty well into standards for women's bodies vs mens

 

 

 

How many studies do you want me to show you about how picky women are about men's height and income?

 

 

those are 2 things that don't even matter for women, you realize that right?

 

 

 

:rolleyes:

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I appreciate your comments mesmerized.

 

I guess it's not that I think all women are like me but I guess I do think most women are like me. I think I am pretty typical.

 

Based on my experience, you are not typical. Most of my girl friends are shallow about looks. We very openly talk about the males body and what types we like and drool over. I have mostly gotten the "looks doesn't matter" speech from women with low self esteem who have a hard time attracting men. Sure I heard it from a couple of gorgeous women too but they are the minority.

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Women are just as picky about mens height that article doesnt prove men are more shallow

 

 

 

It's like talking to a brick wall with her

 

 

Things men are judged on:

 

Looks

Height

Income

Status

Personality

 

 

Things women are judged on:

 

Looks

 

 

 

Yea it's much tougher being a woman :rolleyes:

Posted
And plenty of studies show that women are more shallow about income/status

 

 

Being more shallow about income is somehow more noble than being shallow about looks?

 

 

 

:rolleyes:

 

Yes but this thread is about looks, isn't it?

Posted
Based on my experience, you are not typical. Most of my girl friends are shallow about looks. We very openly talk about the males body and what types we like and drool over. I have mostly gotten the "looks doesn't matter" speech from women with low self esteem who have a hard time attracting men. Sure I heard it from a couple of gorgeous women too but they are the minority.

 

 

Person #135038250283067260438068435043859035082517450832508 who disagrees with DY

Posted
Yes but this thread is about looks, isn't it?

 

 

 

Shallowness is shallowness, don't give me that nonsense

 

 

 

It's not any better to be attracted to a millionaire for his money than to be attracted to a hot babe for her big tits

Posted
How many studies do you want me to show you about how picky women are about men's height and income?

 

 

those are 2 things that don't even matter for women, you realize that right?

 

:rolleyes:

 

First you take issue and complain that I present no outside information.

 

When I present outside information, you comment about how many more you can show me.

 

Who cares about how many more articles you can find? I am sure I can find more articles to trump your articles, then you can come back with more articles to trump mine. How about you actually jsut discuss the information brought in since you were the one that took issue with me not using outside information? I am using outside information here. Discuss.

Posted
First you take issue and complain that I present no outside information.

 

When I present outside information, you comment about how many more you can show me.

 

Who cares about how many more articles you can find? I am sure I can find more articles to trump your articles, then you can come back with more articles to trump mine. How about you actually jsut discuss the information brought in since you were the one that took issue with me not using outside information? I am using outside information here. Discuss.

 

 

 

How about you stop ignoring all the people, including women, who tell you that you are wrong?

Posted
Based on my experience, you are not typical. Most of my girl friends are shallow about looks. We very openly talk about the males body and what types we like and drool over. I have mostly gotten the "looks doesn't matter" speech from women with low self esteem who have a hard time attracting men. Sure I heard it from a couple of gorgeous women too but they are the minority.

 

I tend to agree,i think the looks dont matter camp is usually from people who cant be picky about looks and dont have many options..people are as shallow as their options..

 

I hear some women say they dont fall for streotypical attractive guys and i assume its a defensive mechanism and for self preservation where that women doesnt think that type of guy would be into her anyway so she pretends that type of guy does not turn her on at all..

 

Ive heard the "i dont care for pretty boys" line tons of times and when a really good looking dude approaches that women she becomes smitten

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Based on my experience, you are not typical. Most of my girl friends are shallow about looks. We very openly talk about the males body and what types we like and drool over. I have mostly gotten the "looks doesn't matter" speech from women with low self esteem who have a hard time attracting men. Sure I heard it from a couple of gorgeous women too but they are the minority.

 

And among my group of girlfriends, we might talk about men we find attractive but we all find different types of men attractive. And thank goodness we do or we might have had fights over a couple men if that was the case. My one friend likes stocky guys, I have another friend that likes Asian guys, and yet another that likes tall lanky guys. I have a friend that is a pretty Indian girl that married a short, white Italian.

 

It's not that I don't think looks matter to a point. It's that I found with myself that it has come down to chemistry. I have gone out with stereotypically hot men and I have gone out with unconventional looking men. I have been turned off by unconventional men and I have been turned off by stereotypically hot men too. So I know that for me, it's all about the chemistry. And chemistry isn't connected to phyiscal looks. And I think it is my confidence in myself that has enabled me to go for whatever man I felt something for and not let my attraction be dictated by society standards.

Posted
Person #135038250283067260438068435043859035082517450832508 who disagrees with DY

 

Satisfying costumers since 19**.......... :o I'd rather not say since someone here is still very curious about my age.

Posted
And among my group of girlfriends, we might talk about men we find attractive but we all find different types of men attractive. And thank goodness we do or we might have had fights over a couple men if that was the case. My one friend likes stocky guys, I have another friend that likes Asian guys, and yet another that likes tall lanky guys. I have a friend that is a pretty Indian girl that married a short, white Italian.

 

 

Yea and all men like exactly the same thing

 

 

:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

Posted
It's not even a matter of being picky. It shows that men even judged women with low or normal BMIs as over weight where as these men were less harsh on their own bodies.

 

 

The BMI is inaccurate. If go by the BMI it will tell you that some men with sixpacks and in great shape are obese. This is obviously inaccurate.

A study that usess an grossly innacurate scale is invalidated by the innaccuracies.

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