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brahmabull117 Established Member

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Do you know what I deem "right and wrong" in terms of what men find attractive Snug? If you do, could you share that here? I'm not sure I understand what you mean by that.

 

My issues from media and porn is that we celebrate a very twisted view of women's body to the point of body dysmorphia. It's not that I think it's "wrong" to like big breasts or whatever else. I think it's wrong how overly focused we are on such things to the point of creating body-dysmorphic ideals that I think a lot of men AND women buy into.

 

Just look at how many topics on here crop up about what men want from women in terms of their bodies vs what men may want from a woman regarding her other qualities. I don't see a great amount of knowledge from a lot of guys here that know themselves enough to know what they would need in a relationship that went beyond sex and I don't see much of a desire for them to want to explore that because they are so focused on women's bodies over anything else.

 

I am not saying physical attraction is wrong. It's neccesary to a certain point. I am not saying that liking big breasts are wrong. I see nothing wrong in that. I see something very twisted in our culture though that has distorted femininity and distorted views of sexuality and attraction though. And I think the overt focus on women's bodies in the media has created an overt focus in men to the point of not celebrating female beauty as it really is, but celebrating ideals of body-dysmorphia. And celebrating to a point that this what I see most guys only capable of talking about more times then they appear capable of talking about what they need on other levels.

 

 

Usual delusional nonsense

 

 

Come talk to me when you get back to reality, the reality where most guys are perfectly okay with any bodytype as long as she's not fat

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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Even on this board, I think the guys are more realistic as far as looks than the women are as far as $$$/education/status.

 

How so? How many posts do you see with women posting about wanting rich, successful status men vs men that make posts about women and their bodies, whether they are talkign about their ideal or what they hate?

 

With the limited exception of both some male and female posters, I see way more men focused on women's looks around here then I see wome nfocused on men's wallets.

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brahmabull117 Established Member

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How so? How many posts do you see with women posting about wanting rich, successful status men vs men that make posts about women and their bodies, whether they are talkign about their ideal or what they hate?

 

With the limited exception of both some male and female posters, I see way more men focused on women's looks around here then I see wome nfocused on men's wallets.

 

 

:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

 

 

What about Leopard dumping her man because he was unattractive and poor?

 

 

How about that one 30+ year old chick Essential Sunshine or whatever who said that she keeps running into guys who are either good looking or stable and she won't settle until she gets both? You know the same person who said that she doesn't respect men who are not as accomplished/successful as she is?

 

 

More delusional nonsense from the #1 male basher on here

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And it's funny because when this topic comes up and you hear a woman talk about her guy, she will usually make comments about how she is more attracted to him, then Brad Pitt. She has a certain sense of loyatly. But when you hear men talk, alot of guys talk about how Megan Fox is much hotter then their own partners or they talk about how they need variety. Of course, this is when someone else steps in and talks about how men are "biologically programmed" to spread their seed and blah, blah, blah. Doesn't really matter if a man is biologically programmed for something or not. It still leaves a woman in the same disadvantegous spot to begin with. With her being second potatoes.

 

I bet you won't find one happily married man on the marriage forum who talks about how Megan Fox (or any other woman) is much hotter than his their own wife. Single guys dating women they don't love talk that way.

 

Again, this article is relevant here! The MRI of Love shows that men can find their average looking wives to be as sexually attractive as Angelina Jolie--because he loves her!

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mesmerized Established Member

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I suggest they open a subforum "Gender Wars". People who love it know where to go and this forum will stay peaceful.

Woggle Established Member

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Megan Fox is a good looking woman but I would never trade her for my wife and I think many men feel the same way.

 

I also believe there are women who think David Beckham and George Clooney are better than their husbands as well. Why is there such a one sided view of this?

ThaWholigan Established Member

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I bet you won't find one happily married man on the marriage forum who talks about how Megan Fox (or any other woman) is much hotter than his their own wife. Single guys dating women they don't love talk that way.

 

Again, this article is relevant here! The MRI of Love shows that men can find their average looking wives to be as sexually attractive as Angelina Jolie--because he loves her!

I believe mesmerized said it best in another thread:

 

I think when it comes to "talk", men can be very particular. But then they fall in love with someone imperfect and they see her as perfect. A guy friend of mine is always always in the gym (he is training me tomorrow actually) and me and him always talked about attraction and what he liked. I thought he was very particular until he got a gf. She is a beautiful girl but not exactly like his standards. He loves her a lot and they have a great relationship. This is not uncommon with men and women.

 

Men kind of are all talk when it comes to that stuff, but even if we are with someone who isn't "objectively hot by hollywood standards" (which I don't think is all that anyway), we will obviously not be "settling for them". Likely, we are very attracted to them, enough so that we are in a fulfilling relationship.

mesmerized Established Member

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Megan Fox is a good looking woman but I would never trade her for my wife and I think many men feel the same way.

 

I also believe there are women who think David Beckham and George Clooney are better than their husbands as well. Why is there such a one sided view of this?

 

Keep up with the times, the new thing is in Channing Tatum.:p

ThaWholigan Established Member

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mesmerized said:
I suggest they open a subforum "Gender Wars". People who love it know where to go and this forum will stay peaceful.

That's a good idea. Someone should email LS :D

Woggle Established Member

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Keep up with the times, the new thing is in Channing Tatum.:p

 

Whoever it is I get a bit tired of people acting like only men fantasize about celebrities.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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Keep up with the times, the new thing is in Channing Tatum.:p

Or Chris Hemsworth from Home & Away :lmao:

mesmerized Established Member

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Whoever it is I get a bit tired of people acting like only men fantasize about celebrities.

 

Some women have low sex drives. To them men's looks doesn't matter. I believe DY is one of those women.

mesmerized Established Member

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Or Chris Hemsworth from Home & Away :lmao:

 

:love::love:

 

Or TheWholigan from loveshack.;)

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ThaWholigan Established Member

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Whoever it is I get a bit tired of people acting like only men fantasize about celebrities.

Agree. I keep bumping into girls who sit around all day talking about "how sexy Trey Songz is" :lmao:

 

(He is a good looking guy though)

brahmabull117 Established Member

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Megan Fox is a good looking woman but I would never trade her for my wife and I think many men feel the same way.

 

I also believe there are women who think David Beckham and George Clooney are better than their husbands as well. Why is there such a one sided view of this?

 

 

Because male-bashers like DY are delusional

Radu Established Member

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There's a correlation between men wanting models and the advent of porn.

 

You can see it in the ads, in media, women are portrayed in such ideal circumstances that many feel bad about not being 'that' woman.

 

The moment men realise what porn does to their minds is the moment that humanity can finally move forward.

Unfortunately men will never give up porn, or lusting after barely legal babes in their 40's.

In normal countries, society punishes men who go after women that are more than 2 decades apart in age.

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Some women have low sex drives. To them men's looks doesn't matter. I believe DY is one of those women.

 

I think you can have a high sex drive and still not be overly shallow its not just about looks that can create sexual chemsitry

 

Plus theres some people who cant get good looking attractive people off the opposite sex it doesnt mean they arent horny because they arent with soembody conventionally hot

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Radu Established Member

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Some women have low sex drives. To them men's looks doesn't matter. I believe DY is one of those women.

 

That's not why ... ;)

Woggle Established Member

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I think you can have a high sex drive and still not be overly shallow its not just about looks that can create sexual chemsitry

 

Plus theres some people who cant get good looking attractive people off the opposite sex it doesnt mean they arent horny because they arent with soembody conventionally hot

 

Also standards of attractiveness are subjective. I see women who men drool over and to me they just like the typical blonde American princess. Everybody has their own tastes.

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brahmabull117 Established Member

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There's a correlation between men wanting models and the advent of porn.

 

You can see it in the ads, in media, women are portrayed in such ideal circumstances that many feel bad about not being 'that' woman.

 

The moment men realise what porn does to their minds is the moment that humanity can finally move forward.

Unfortunately men will never give up porn, or lusting after barely legal babes in their 40's.

In normal countries, society punishes men who go after women that are more than 2 decades apart in age.

 

 

 

Meh, most men are perfectly happy to date somebody about as attractive as they are

 

 

Yea they might talk to the hot 21 year old or jerk off to porn but they know that's not reality...just like many women know it's not reality for them to date the millionaire male model

 

 

It's all equal in the end

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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This isn't a compliment

 

Can we hold hands? :love:

Radu Established Member

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Meh, most men are perfectly happy to date somebody about as attractive as they are

 

 

Yea they might talk to the hot 21 year old or jerk off to porn but they know that's not reality...just like many women know it's not reality for them to date the millionaire male model

 

 

It's all equal in the end

 

No it's not.

 

It's taking advantage and borderline pedophilia.

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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Some women have low sex drives. To them men's looks doesn't matter. I believe DY is one of those women.

 

Ummmm.....how about you not comment on my sex drive and I won't comment on what I think yours is. Looks not mattering and sex drives are NOT mutually exclusive things.

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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Because male-bashers like DY are delusional

 

You are the only one doing the bashing. The rest of us, while disagreeing, are simply disagreeing.

brahmabull117 Established Member

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You are the only one doing the bashing. The rest of us, while disagreeing, are simply disagreeing.

 

 

I'm just tired of your constant male bashing on here, all of course with nothing whatsoever to back it up

 

 

 

Then you have the audacity to claim that you're not a male basher even when tons of WOMEN tell you that your views are complete nonsense

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