DeepSeaBaby Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 First post here, and well, I'll say what I have to say. I had a long relationship if you can call it so, 1 year and 4 months(for me that's long) but that was during my teen years. It was perfect, puppy love as some would say, and then it took a turn for the worst, fights and everything, and ended. After that I ended up seeing a lot of girls, I sort of turned into the "interesting but distant and mysterious" guy, for 2 years, and although i sometimes miss my old love, I keep going on. I've tried having relationships a few times, but i always cheated on the respective girl, and ended up telling her for the sole purpose of getting dumped. Now I have met what would seem to be the perfect girl, a bit older than me, but perfect nonetheless. We've not been seeing eachother for more than a month, but when I'm with her I feel perfect, everything is nice. On the other hand... when I'm alone with my friends I get a little urge to flirt with other girls, or I get nostalgic and think of my last "relationships"... I get confused with the ideea of flirting with someone who seems interesting whatnot.... I love the ideea of beeing, free, making my own adventures. Main ideea is, is it something wrong with me? Or is it with the girl? Thank you for your time .
snug.bunny Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Given you have a history of cheating, it's probably you.
eMGunslinger Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Given you have a history of cheating, it's probably you. I agree, and at a certain point you have to sit back and look in the mirror. Are you happy with the person you are or have become? If not you should seriously do some searching inside, slow down you life, or talk it out with someone. You don't sound in the mind set to hold a legitimate relationship though. Sorry
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