How do you get a girlfriend without being "just friends" and without sex?

[Necris]

Sorry if this sounds funny because I barely actually know my own question, so bare with me. What if you are a guy interested in a non-sexual romantic relationship with a woman, how does a guy like that not get "friend-zoned", how can you convey interest in a woman but at the same time not pursue a sexual relationship? I noticed in our culture today a non-sexual romantic relationship seems to be a lost concept, instead it seems people either want just friendship or a sexual relationship of some kind. I asked another guy this question and he just thought I was weird especially with the whole no sex thing.

 

Now personally I know I can't get a girlfriend or any other type of romantic relationship, period, women just aren't interested in me so I guess I'm just asking this question because I'm just curious to know what you guys think.

Edited August 16, 2012 by Necris

[ThaWholigan]

Find an asexual or a religious girl.

 

You would still have to know how to talk. You really have to just do the numbers and meet people until you can find that girl.

[SmileFace]

Do mean no sex (Asexual) or sex until marriage because these are two different things.

[William.]

I reckon it's possible of course, if both of you are interested in a serious long term relationship who said that there has to be sex? If you can find someone who's priorities are above the primitive desire to have sex and more so about things that really mean something in a relationship then why not

[xxoo]

What if you are a guy interested in a non-sexual romantic relationship with a woman, how does a guy like that not get "friend-zoned", how can you convey interest in a woman but at the same time not pursue a sexual relationship?

 

Oh, that's easy. Marry her!

 

(just kidding)

 

Seriously, what do you mean by a non-sexual, romantic relationship? Delaying sex? Or no sex ever?