Author ls32ssibm Posted August 16, 2012 Author Posted August 16, 2012 I didn't once say I had a bad outlook The issue is that which is a better option - 23 year old man who has to specifically look for an 18-23 year old (which is extremely hard after college) or a 23 year old woman who can date guys in absolutely any age range? The answer is very obvious. Young men are at the bottom of the food chain. Women in their early 20s have a billion options because they can date older The dating food chain goes: Younger Women Older Men Older Women=Younger men (both have it pretty awful) No argument here. My high school crush I used to slobber over is now engaged to someone 6 or 7 years (our) senior. Older guys are more established and can put up younger girls.
StillReigning Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 No argument here. My high school crush I used to slobber over is now engaged to someone 6 or 7 years (our) senior. Older guys are more established and can put up younger girls. Just because you're bottom of the food chain doesn't mean you can't be successful though Put in the work to find younger women and do your best to maximize your success in those situations. Plenty of younger guys have girlfriends
threebyfate Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 My two teenage nephews are doing better than you guys. The older one who's now 18 gets hit on pretty regularly by women in the age category you guys are looking for but he's not interested in relationships, more focused on sports, school and dating around. He's also very friendly and outgoing. So get your butts in gear guys and instead of whining about the lack of women, go find them.
Anela Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 StillReigning--I think you just need to have a brighter outlook on all of this. If you keep an open mind and heart, and stay confident and optimistic, you will get your 23 year old. It will happen. My thoughts exactly.
StillReigning Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 My two teenage nephews are doing better than you guys. The older one who's now 18 gets hit on pretty regularly by women in the age category you guys are looking for but he's not interested in relationships, more focused on sports, school and dating around. He's also very friendly and outgoing. So get your butts in gear guys and instead of whining about the lack of women, go find them. I would say dating as a guy is not bad in high school and college because you have big access to girls in your own age range The worst dating is when you're a guy around 21-25 and you're not in college. It's so hard to find women around your own age and women are incredibly weird about dating guys even 1 year younger...even though no normal sane human being would ever think 1 year age gap makes any difference
ThaWholigan Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 My two teenage nephews are doing better than you guys. The older one who's now 18 gets hit on pretty regularly by women in the age category you guys are looking for but he's not interested in relationships, more focused on sports, school and dating around. He's also very friendly and outgoing. So get your butts in gear guys and instead of whining about the lack of women, go find them. ^^^^ Basically. Put yourself into those circles and scenarios. And stop thinking about food chains and all that sh*t.
Author ls32ssibm Posted August 16, 2012 Author Posted August 16, 2012 My two teenage nephews are doing better than you guys. The older one who's now 18 gets hit on pretty regularly by women in the age category you guys are looking for but he's not interested in relationships, more focused on sports, school and dating around. He's also very friendly and outgoing. So get your butts in gear guys and instead of whining about the lack of women, go find them. Things change when you leave high school and college. Being 23 or 24 doesn't really compare to being 18 at all.
StillReigning Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 ^^^^ Basically. Put yourself into those circles and scenarios. And stop thinking about food chains and all that sh*t. LOL @ you not wanting to admit basic reality
threebyfate Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Make every excuse you want to make and do nothing, or get out there and start looking by putting yourself out there. If you're 23 or 24 years old, the 18 and 19 year old girls will be looking at YOU, not the late twenty or thirty year old men. 2
StillReigning Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Make every excuse you want to make and do nothing, or get out there and start looking by putting yourself out there. If you're 23 or 24 years old, the 18 and 19 year old girls will be looking at YOU, not the late twenty or thirty year old men. 18 and 19 year olds are in college, who the fck wants to date stupid young girls around that age who can't even go out to bars with us? Most 21-25 year old guys want women in that same age range
USMCHokie Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 StillReigning = Brahmabull = TrainofAngels...?
ThaWholigan Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 LOL @ you not wanting to admit basic reality LOL @ you making excuses again. Most guys my age where I live are getting laid. Very few of them are having the problems I see on the internet. The ones that are usually are the ones who never approach women.
threebyfate Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 How often do you guys go to bars and nightclubs?
ThaWholigan Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 StillReigning = Brahmabull = TrainofAngels...? He's the only one who leaves so much space between paragraphs.
USMCHokie Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 He's the only one who leaves so much space between paragraphs. Precisely. Amongst other things... This is one of the reasons I like you so much, Wholigan. No homo. 3
ThaWholigan Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 How often do you guys go to bars and nightclubs? I went a lot last year when I was still performing, now I go occasionally, I get numbers sometimes but club girls are the flakiest . I don't sweat it, there are always girls at clubs, they either respond or not. I meet girls most places, when I am on a course, or performing, or through social circle, there are loads of girls. I also meet a few over the internet too though. 1
Pyro Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Precisely. Amongst other things... This is one of the reasons I like you so much, Wholigan. No homo. http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc6/c0.0.400.400/p403x403/251965_4341153289164_405200415_n.jpg%20// 3
USMCHokie Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc6/c0.0.400.400/p403x403/251965_4341153289164_405200415_n.jpg%20// Well it took you long enough... 2
Pyro Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 He's the only one who leaves so much space between paragraphs. and he is 23 and has mentioned 23 year old guys on here. The Rock sucks. 1
StillReigning Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 LOL @ you making excuses again. Most guys my age where I live are getting laid. Very few of them are having the problems I see on the internet. The ones that are usually are the ones who never approach women. I never once said that you shouldn't get laid or that you shouldn't put in the work or that you shouldn't have a great attitude or any of those things. I was acknowledging a simple reality - the average 23 year old female has about 10 times more options than the average 23 year old male because they can date men in any age range while a 23 year old male has to find women in about a 5 year windows (18-23 but most guys out of college don't want to deal with a stupid 18 year old). It's just a world of difference What's better - 23 year old female who can date anybody or a 23 year old man who has to look left and right to find a girl in his preferred age range (which is around 21-23)? You're just being delusional 1
Author ls32ssibm Posted August 16, 2012 Author Posted August 16, 2012 18 and 19 year olds are in college, who the fck wants to date stupid young girls around that age who can't even go out to bars with us? Most 21-25 year old guys want women in that same age range It isn't really that, it's girls that age would be intolerable for me on a maturity level. 1
Pyro Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 23 year old guys can get laid if they focus on their career first and are funny. 3
USMCHokie Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 and he is 23 and has mentioned 23 year old guys on here. The Rock sucks. Don't forget about his liberal use of terms like "basic reality"... 1
StillReigning Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 It isn't really that, it's girls that age would be intolerable for me on a maturity level. Agreed 100%. You have about a 2-3 year age range which you can date while your 23 year old counterpart can date literally anybody. Gee I wonder who has it better?
Pyro Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Don't forget about his liberal use of terms like "basic reality"... you have the maturity level of a 10 year old. 2
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