Too early in the game to worry?

[2manytacos]

So I met this great girl recently on through some mutual friends. She ended up asking me out for a drink and we ended up hitting it off. We have been on a few dates and we have been talking and texting since the begining.

 

My question is simply this...She has a few guy friends that she is close to, one in partiqular and evil F/B kinda illustrates it. Should I worry? I get the feeling that people really like them together.

 

I worry because I have been down this road before. 3 years in a relationship and I end up loosing the girl I love to one of her "guy friends". Is it Dejavu?

I really like this girl. I'll spare you the mushy details but everything seems so easy and laid back with her, she is quality.

 

Advice?

[2manytacos]

She asked you out, made the first move. Obviously shes interested. This other guy F/B meaning Facebook or Friends w Benefits ? I wouldn't sweat it if it just a Facebook friend. Play your cards right. You will get her.

 

Facebook not fwb, at least I hope. He's actually a long time friend of hers and they seem pretty close based on very recent photos. I hope your right about the fact that she asked me out. Inside it makes me so paranoid but I know I have to play it cool or else I'll scare her off.

 

Do I ask about the pictures?

[bluegreen]

Ask her to introduce you two he is am 100 % in love with her and either she is stringing him along or is unaware of it.

So maybe there is an event like a game or better yet be "evil" enough and suggest double date your cute girl friends might help you out here.

But all in all tread lightly here until you see what's what and who's who and why ...

[2manytacos]

Thanks for the advice guys. I will do my best to follow it. I'm just a little gun shy being that I got hosed before.

 

To add I think (possibly) her friend could be stepping it up a notch knowing that she found someone. He was dormant when she was single. His bad. She really is a catch.She may not think anything of it but I'm a guy and there are some traits and thoughts that we all share. What I'm trying to say again is that he sees me threatening his fall back possibilities with her.

 

You guys should have seen the pics. They looked like they were having so much fun together. Can you blame me for being just a little bit jealous?

[sweetheart5381]

Thanks for the advice guys. I will do my best to follow it. I'm just a little gun shy being that I got hosed before.

 

To add I think (possibly) her friend could be stepping it up a notch knowing that she found someone. He was dormant when she was single. His bad. She really is a catch.She may not think anything of it but I'm a guy and there are some traits and thoughts that we all share. What I'm trying to say again is that he sees me threatening his fall back possibilities with her.

 

You guys should have seen the pics. They looked like they were having so much fun together. Can you blame me for being just a little bit jealous?

 

Interesting thread, just went thru some of this stuff myself.

 

I liken it to a pi$$ing contest.

 

My ex dumped me, said he wanted to date and sleep with other women, led me on then didn't think it was "meant to be" with me, so lost me fast and furiously. I didn't like it but I accepted it.

 

I attempted to be friends with him after the b/u since we work together and have mutual friends. I hated to see things get ugly and involve others, I like my privacy. He feigned a friendship with me and kept me around for about 6 months, no interest in my life really, just wanted to know I was still there. UNTIL he found out that his best friend was interested in me and I was interested in him too. His best friend treats me so well, always considerate and caring and a wee bit shy too... the real good guy so to speak. My ex heard that we were planning a date after he got back from vacation and guess who suddenly wanted me back in their bed?

 

I am no longer friends with the ex, not much sense, no real friendship there.

 

Long story short, a lot of so-called male friends always want to have the girl waiting in the wings. It's a dominance thing, the A-type mentality. Cockblocking 101. Hopefully this girl sees this!

 

Good luck