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so today has been really hard YEAH YEAH i know..AGAIN you must be saying! i was sitting here crying and my phone vibrates ...so its the ex bf from few yrs back (lets call him A) yup the one before the current ex (B) professing his love and how sorry he is for letting me go. ugh yeah ive heard it all before plenty of times for the last 2 yrs. he even asked me to move in with him. yeah cant do!

 

the reason i was crying to begin with was because i miss my current ex of 2 yrs and i was just so frustrated of the fact that i haven't heard from him since the BU like almost 2 months ago.

 

its ironic because here i was thinking "wow my current ex "B" must really hate me to cut me off like this" when i got txt from "A" saying "look i never hated u after the BU like few yrs back." uhmm how ionic im sitting here thinking the same question about "B" when "A" answered my question as if i was talking to him...wow just wow. i wish my current ex would answer me the same thing. yet my heart keeps breaking...

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so today has been really hard YEAH YEAH i know..AGAIN you must be saying! i was sitting here crying and my phone vibrates ...so its the ex bf from few yrs back (lets call him A) yup the one before the current ex (B) professing his love and how sorry he is for letting me go. ugh yeah ive heard it all before plenty of times for the last 2 yrs. he even asked me to move in with him. yeah cant do!

 

the reason i was crying to begin with was because i miss my current ex of 2 yrs and i was just so frustrated of the fact that i haven't heard from him since the BU like almost 2 months ago.

 

its ironic because here i was thinking "wow my current ex "B" must really hate me to cut me off like this" when i got txt from "A" saying "look i never hated u after the BU like few yrs back." uhmm how ionic im sitting here thinking the same question about "B" when "A" answered my question as if i was talking to him...wow just wow. i wish my current ex would answer me the same thing. yet my heart keeps breaking...

 

You get what you deserve. Ex B probably wishes Option 1 had your feelings (you're Option 2) and doesn't think twice about you or what you want. Reconcile with ex A.

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You get what you deserve. Ex B probably wishes Option 1 had your feelings (you're Option 2) and doesn't think twice about you or what you want. Reconcile with ex A.

 

yea people might say that but i have no feelings for A and its just a little to late if u ask me. we're really good friends more than any other exs out there that i know of but my heart wants B, yeah someone i cant have. someone who's already moved on but here i am dwelling on sh*t that doesn't exist. what a fool i am!

 

i keep clinging to that 1 % hope because now that i have seen how much A has changed i hope some day B will come to his senses as well.

 

 

WAIT WHAT DO U MEAN BY "Ex B probably wishes Option 1 had your feelings (you're Option 2) and doesn't think twice about you or what you want?"

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yea people might say that but i have no feelings for A and its just a little to late if u ask me. we're really good friends more than any other exs out there that i know of but my heart wants B, yeah someone i cant have. someone who's already moved on but here i am dwelling on sh*t that doesn't exist. what a fool i am!

 

i keep clinging to that 1 % hope because now that i have seen how much A has changed i hope some day B will come to his senses as well.

 

 

WAIT WHAT DO U MEAN BY "Ex B probably wishes Option 1 had your feelings (you're Option 2) and doesn't think twice about you or what you want?"

 

The way you feel about ex A is the way ex B feels about you. It's an ongoing cycle. Ex A probably has someone wishing he'd realize that they should be together too. Break the cycle. Give ex A a chance.

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A had plenty of chances to prove himself few yrs bck plus we don't believe in the same things anymore. im not even giving it a second thought about me and A. that's a big NO NO! that's like going into a relationship with a ticking time bomb. we're good just like how we are right now. as a couple tho, things just gets rough once we get serious just like the many times before.

 

im just not ready for anything or anyone unless its with B.

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You sound like you're confused and in shock.

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That's horrible advice, she obviously doesn't want to be with this other guy. Just tell him you know how he feels, but that you simply just don't have feelings for him. You should never date someone you don't have feelings for; you'll just end up hurting them.

 

Also sorry about the other guy - just remember you got over the first so you'll get over the second. If he wanted you back, you probably wouldn't even feel the same way!

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So confused and in Shock,

 

Don't listen to Breck - he is a Troll and one should not feed trolls.

 

It is ironic indeed. Life is funny this way sometimes but you do not need to get with A. Or B for that matters. Right now, you only need to take care of YOU. Do you have any friends that you could call right now and talk to? Or sympathetic family members? I find that talking about breakups with kind people to be very helpful!

 

But please, please, please, hang in there for now! Things will get better! You had A and B in the past, there is no reason why you would not get a fantastic C!

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Yeap. Gotta agree Breck is a troll.

 

Don't play with anybody's feelings. Remember the hurt you're going through. And pull through it. Become stronger :). You can do it. We are all hurting, that's why we're here. But we all know eventually we can get through this and see the rainbow at the other side. Take your time to heal, don't rush the process

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You sound like you're confused and in shock.
Just like Breck's story of his insanely hot girlfriends A and B, and how he needed to break up with one of them.:rolleyes:
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You get what you deserve. Ex B probably wishes Option 1 had your feelings (you're Option 2) and doesn't think twice about you or what you want. Reconcile with ex A.

 

What are you EVEN talking about? Did you read anything she wrote? She doesn't WANT Ex-A. He dumped her years ago, and now he's crawling out of the woodwork regretting his decision.

 

OP wants Ex-B clearly ANOTHER guy who broke up with her and hasn't spoken to her since. She wishes Ex-B, the one she WANTS would have the feelings that Ex-A has...

 

What do you mean she gets what she deserves? What exactly did the OP do here? If you're going to come on these threads trying to be "harda$$" or "tough love" or "funny" or whatever you're trying to do, at least know what the hell is going on.

 

OP--- just try to be strong. Someone said it, there could be a fantastic C out there who won't HAVE to dump you to realize his feelings!

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Poor SCAIS, that's some dumb luck you got there. I know the feeling of hoping every text is from my ex, even though I don't really want to talk to her, I just want some kind of pathetic admission of her making a mistake. I've been pathetic enough with this whole breakup, it's her turn, you know?

 

Like Kat said, there's going to be a glorious C for you, and he'll be a lucky C for even knowing a girl that has your kind of devotion and character.

 

/still waiting on that dinner ;)

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Thank you guys SO much for understanding and the kind words. All of your advises keep me going! I will not go out with some i dont have feelings for its just so not right if you ask me. i dont care if we had history or anything, there's just no chemistry. I'm just trying to work on myself right now. praying Ex B calls/txts in the future *figures crossed*

 

Kat, you're one awesome chick. all of the advises you give on LS are straight to the point and very helpful.

 

Floored: you could be guy C. haha (you just never know)

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