Necromancer Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Grab the popcorn (and peanuts!). This will be a hell of a thread, about how women on yahoo need to get back to reality... their view of dating is mental at best. All hope is not lost if you put Cuasimodo to shame!... Personality is all that matters!. 7% 3 Votes hippiein... Personally I look at the guys personality before anything but it really depends on the woman. Personality is usually is what matters the most. but sorry. it depends on the person. :/ looks don't really matter, what does matter is personality and their love for that particular person To be honest looks dnt really matter. They kinda do but not too much. Personally wat attracts me is if a guy is confident in themselves and atleast tries to fix themselves up other than tht if u have an amazing personality there's no reason why a girl wouldn't want to go out with u. Just stay confident and be urself. I'm sure you will find tht one girl who will fall in love with u for who u are not for how u look like. Best of luck =) I don't judge people by their looks. I judge them by the way they act and their personality. Looks aren't really that important. I go for personality and looks are a bonus. I do like some really good looking guy but it I am not that bothered!! Um, looks matter to some people, but I think your personality and how you treat girls matters more... No, looks dont matter. it's about the personality the person has. id take a guy with a great personality over good looks anyday. YES! Girls care less about looks than guys do, usually.Personally, i choose guys for their personality, good looks are a bonus! Also, girls are really self conscious so if your not 'perfect' in the body department, it will only make them feel better about the fact they are not a size 0 with massive boobs. Trust me, having a good personality with ok looks is better than being stunning but with a boring personality. You'll be fine looks do not matter its wat is in the inside its not about the looks Where do i find all of this Women?. I would love to buy one copy!. 1
StillReigning Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 LOL @ looking at yahoo answers, nothing but dumb teenagers on there 1
mesmerized Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 LOL @ looking at yahoo answers, nothing but dumb teenagers on there But it works well for him cause he's also a teenager.
Garfish Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Well it looks like they were talking about relationships. In that case, they were likely being honest because I've heard it many times before. If you asked them just about sex, they'd give a different answer. Let's be honest it's the same with guys. Guys want a hot chick, but in a relationship they often pick the slightly less hot chick with the good personality (of course I mean the one that seems to have a good personality, until you get to know her) over the hot chick who is high-maintenance and boring.
StillReigning Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 (edited) Well it looks like they were talking about relationships. In that case, they were likely being honest because I've heard it many times before. If you asked them just about sex, they'd give a different answer. Let's be honest it's the same with guys. Guys want a hot chick, but in a relationship they often pick the slightly less hot chick with the good personality (of course I mean the one that seems to have a good personality, until you get to know her) over the hot chick who is high-maintenance and boring. When it comes to relationships, any halfway normal guy will take a moderately cute girl with great personality any day of the week Edited August 15, 2012 by StillReigning
Garfish Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 When it comes to relationships, any halfway normal guy will take a moderately cute girl with great personality any day of the week Right, that's kind of the same thing I said. Maybe I didn't make it clear.
yongyong Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 I am being serious with my comments. Isn't it what All Americans say??? 'I don't judge people by their looks' 'It's all about personality' (sounds like better than heaven if everyone does that) In my opinion, they've been hearing this statements since kindergarten (including racism. So there is no racism in united states of America?) so that they think it's not right to do that in their head. However, we as a human are all the same. we can't ignore the appearance Every time I express my honest opinion, I always get attacked. ('hey I don't really care how awesome personality she has if I don't have sexual attraction to her') It really bothers me because I know they are just average person like me. Why can't people be little more honest? Or you don't have to be honest and can just keep your mouth shut and listen. why can't they let someone express their own honest opinion?
Titanwolf Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Lol full of naivety and false nobility. At what age do these women accept and admit to themselves that they are extremely visual creatures? I'd like to know
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Every time I express my honest opinion, I always get attacked. ('hey I don't really care how awesome personality she has if I don't have sexual attraction to her') It really bothers me because I know they are just average person like me. I don't think you'd be attacked if you said that. You usually say many horrid things about women; American women in particular. That's what brings the attacks.
USMCHokie Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 In my opinion, they've been hearing this statements since kindergarten (including racism. So there is no racism in united states of America?) so that they think it's not right to do that in their head. However, we as a human are all the same. we can't ignore the appearance . . . Why can't people be little more honest? Or you don't have to be honest and can just keep your mouth shut and listen. why can't they let someone express their own honest opinion? Because society has conditioned people to believe that attraction based on physical attributes is "shallow." Since people are often sensitive to what others think of them, they don't want to be associated with the negative connotation of "shallowness." Therefore, they advertise to the world that they only care about personality. It's about self-preservation. But I merely speculate...
MrCastle Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Because society has conditioned people to believe that attraction based on physical attributes is "shallow." Since people are often sensitive to what others think of them, they don't want to be associated with the negative connotation of "shallowness." Therefore, they advertise to the world that they only care about personality. It's about self-preservation. But I merely speculate... But shallow people do exist man. We've all met them. There is a difference between having preferences and being shallow
USMCHokie Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 But shallow people do exist man. We've all met them. There is a difference between having preferences and being shallow But why would people openly admit that they have physical preferences when there's a chance others might perceive them to be shallow? Better to just keep quiet and go the personality route, right? Perception may not be reality, but perception is real.
MrCastle Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 But why would people openly admit that they have physical preferences when there's a chance others might perceive them to be shallow? Better to just keep quiet and go the personality route, right? Perception may not be reality, but perception is real. I totally agree with that part, but not the idea that shallow people don't exist. They do.
USMCHokie Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 I totally agree with that part, but not the idea that shallow people don't exist. They do. Oh, I wasn't at all suggesting that shallow folks don't exist.
the_Grinch Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 LOL what a joke. Almost as bad as "I want a guy with a sense of humor".....
pteromom Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Of course looks matter. But the thing is that what constitutes attractive varies from person to person. One girl is attracted to tall, thin blonde guys; another to stocky dark-haired men; and another to geeky shy guys with glasses. There are some people who are very stuck in their preferences. They refuse to even consider someone who isn't physically exactly what they want. But MOST women (and men) are open to meeting someone, and then yes, someone's personality can definitely tip the scales, even if the person isn't a physical ideal. Personally, I would rather have an average (or even slightly below average) guy who is confident, happy, and accepting, than a great-looking guy who is shallow and self-absorbed. Sure, if a guy is Quasimodo, he is going to have a hard time attracting a woman even if he has the best personality in the world. But the harder it will be finding someone, the bigger net he should cast in order to find the women who are willing to date Quasimodo. Sitting around brooding that nobody wants him is the OPPOSITE of what he should be doing. 1
Els Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 It's Quasimodo, dear, Quasimodo... Just curious, OP, what do you feel you have to offer 'on the inside'?
Hopeful30 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 people just say this to be "politically correct" in real life 80% are not like this even if they try to be
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