Beatrixx Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 I ended my relationship with my boyfriend two weeks ago but yesterday I realized I'm miserable without him, so I called him. It was the first time either of us had spoke to each other since the break up and he sounded very happy to hear from me. I explained that I felt I made a mistake and said if he doesn't want to be with me anymore, I'll understand. But if he did want to try and make things work, could we meet and talk? He asked if he could think about it and I said sure. Then he said he'll ring me tomorrow... He called me this afternoon and agreed to meet up tomorrow for a coffee. I guess this means he wants to reconcile? I really hope so... No doubt we'll have to talk through problems we had in the relationship that caused the break up and find a way to compromise otherwise I fear we may face the same problems again. This was the first time we had broken up, I'm aware that some couples break up more than once but keep getting back together and I don't want us to be one of those couples. I honestly want to work things out and become stronger than ever because I love him (and I guess he loves me too considering he is willing to get back together after I dumped him). The reason why I ended the relationship in the first place is because we are in a semi long distance relationship (we live an hour and a half away from each other) so we only saw each other weekends. I didn't feel he was communicating with me enough. During the week I'd sometimes only hear from him once or twice. He'd regularly go 3+ days without contacting me. This wasn't making me feel very secure and made me feel like a bit of a booty call to be honest. I did have words about him being inattentive before I ended it, but he went back into his old habits so that's why I ended it. I really don't want to be forced to end it again over the same reasons. So I'm asking you guys, what can I do to save our relationship? The thing is, I really don't want to say to him tomorrow 'you have to be more attentive for this to work' because I don't want to MAKE him contact me, I want him to WANT to contact me.
Dblock10 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 well you need to tell him that you would like more communication.. sounds like it will go well, good luck!
TG1 Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 well you need to tell him that you would like more communication.. sounds like it will go well, good luck! Yes communication and also trust are key
chrisusarmy2005 Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 Good Luck, Going back to someone that is worth it means everything to you. I would take my ex gf back in a heartbeat. She's worth it. If they come back you know its meant to be.
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