TheRose Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Hi.. I'm in need of some advice.. Recently a friend of my parents set me up with his godson. I didnt know this until after a while when his godson told me.. We really hit it off, had the same kind of humor & had a lot of chemistry. Two problems however... Number one: he is rich (as in multimillionair), number two: he's a lot older than I am (about 15 years older). There's also a pretty big distance between us (about 2000 miles). He has wants me to date him, told me 'our kids would be beautiful', wantedme to stay with him and wanted to buy me a ring. My problem: I like him and I feel bad about it. Firstly because he is so much older than I am and it feels weird. Second cause he has a lot of money which intimidates me and I dont want to be seen as a golddigger cause I really dont care about his money! And third because I feel that even though he says al these things, he probably sees me as 'just another girl', even though he clames that 'Im so different from all the other girls he's met'. What do you guys think I should do?
Art_Critic Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Second cause he has a lot of money which intimidates me and I dont want to be seen as a golddigger cause I really dont care about his money! Okay.. stay with me here... Look how many times you mention money.. I'd say that you not being seen as a gold digger is gonna be kinda hard.. Should I date a millionair? Hi.. I'm in need of some advice.. Recently a friend of my parents set me up with his godson. I didnt know this until after a while when his godson told me.. We really hit it off, had the same kind of humor & had a lot of chemistry. Two problems however... Number one: he is rich (as in multimillionair), number two: he's a lot older than I am (about 15 years older). There's also a pretty big distance between us (about 2000 miles). He has wants me to date him, told me 'our kids would be beautiful', wantedme to stay with him and wanted to buy me a ring. My problem: I like him and I feel bad about it. Firstly because he is so much older than I am and it feels weird. Second cause he has a lot of money which intimidates me and I dont want to be seen as a golddigger cause I really dont care about his money! And third because I feel that even though he says al these things, he probably sees me as 'just another girl', even though he clames that 'Im so different from all the other girls he's met'. What do you guys think I should do? What do I think you should do... nothing.. How much money he has has no bearing on anything.. 2
FitChick Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 How old are you? How many times has he been married and how many kids does he have? That might be more of a deal breaker than the money. 1
CALOVELY Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 That would be one hell of an airline company name: Millionair. 4
TaraMaiden Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 And imagine being their millionth customer....!! 2
Andy_K Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 What do you guys think I should do? Forget your pill, that way you're set for at least 18 years whether things work out or not! 1
SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 Should I date a millionair? If said millionair invites you to his club, then you should probably turn and run!
mortensorchid Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 All the talk of gold digging and things aside, really, you could love a poor man just as much as you could a rich one, right? I've dated my fair share of poor men, I've dated those who are (as far as I know) comfortable in their income levels, and if I've ever dated a rich man I have no idea if they were, in fact, more well off than the average. If you like him, then you like him and that's that. 1
kaylan Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 You arent into him OP. Move on. You obviously want a guy closer to your age (and income bracket) that you relate to better. Its all good. Find a guy you are sure about. 1
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