SJC2008 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I'll compliment a woman on a date, nothing over the top just sincere. In this last year and a half I have been on 10 dates and not one of those women complimented me on anything. Not a shirt, shoes smile or anything. I'm not saying I WANT this or seek this I'm just saying with all the confidence threads on this forum have any women been bold enough to compliment you on a date? Honest question!
madjac74 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I'll compliment a woman on a date, nothing over the top just sincere. In this last year and a half I have been on 10 dates and not one of those women complimented me on anything. Not a shirt, shoes smile or anything. I'm not saying I WANT this or seek this I'm just saying with all the confidence threads on this forum have any women been bold enough to compliment you on a date? Honest question! Yes I have been told I'm cute and funny but most importantly when I joked about my big ears they said that my ears are just fine
Author SJC2008 Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 Yes I have been told I'm cute and funny but most importantly when I joked about my big ears they said that my ears are just fine Cool! I've been complimented IRL every now and then but never on a date.
rocketman122 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Yes. all the time. every single date. not showing off, its just how it happens. they call me the male equivalent of a hottie but in hebrew. they never call me cute. but usually its "youre such a hottie, how is it that no one stole you till now?" is what I get. I smile and tell them "I dont let them" and we both laugh. I never had a bad date and never that the woman didnt want to continue to a 2nd. there arent many men here that look really good. tall, muscular, dress well, know how to treat a woman right. I have a clear advantage. but in the same respect many woman think all I want is sex ONS (which I never had and dont believe in)..a double edged sword. I always impress on my dates. I always bring a rose to my first dates. Im a gentlemen and chivalrous. the woman love that. they always flirt, they touch me and I them. I read their body language and always go in for a first kiss. the last date (dating now) was no more than 5-7 minutes before I kissed her from when she sat down. there was a very powerful attraction between us. I also always sit next to them or 90º to them, never opposite from them. if you sit opposite from them, youre keeping distance and I dont want that. I never get shot down when going in for a kiss. never.
Author SJC2008 Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 Yes. all the time. every single date. not showing off, its just how it happens. they call me the male equivalent of a hottie but in hebrew. they never call me cute. but usually its "youre such a hottie, how is it that no one stole you till now?" is what I get. I smile and tell them "I dont let them" and we both laugh. I never had a bad date and never that the woman didnt want to continue to a 2nd. there arent many men here that look really good. tall, muscular, dress well, know how to treat a woman right. I have a clear advantage. but in the same respect many woman think all I want is sex ONS (which I never had and dont believe in)..a double edged sword. I always impress on my dates. I always bring a rose to my first dates. Im a gentlemen and chivalrous. the woman love that. they always flirt, they touch me and I them. I read their body language and always go in for a first kiss. the last date (dating now) was no more than 5-7 minutes before I kissed her from when she sat down. there was a very powerful attraction between us. I also always sit next to them or 90º to them, never opposite from them. if you sit opposite from them, youre keeping distance and I dont want that. I never get shot down when going in for a kiss. never. Some middle eastern women do it for me in a good way. Met a woman from Lebanon at my job and she was beautiful. Big tits and big ass pretty face and pleasant. She was "westernised" but still went with some dick named Mohamed who tried to talk me down on the estimate so much I finally had to say take it or leave it.
Emilia Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Yes I always compliment on looks and personality traits (funny, open, chivalrous, etc) because I only date men I'm attracted to so naturally I want to encourage them to bring on more of the same.
oaks Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Yes. Recently I've been told that I have nice eyes, a nice smile, and I look good for my age. Last year I also learned that I have a nice ass.
fishtaco Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Yes. I've been complimented. But it means nothing. Just part of the game.
Failboy Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Not at all, except some meaningless stuff like having nice blue eyes or whatever. And I usually don't give them compliments either. When I date a good-looking woman (almost never happens) I would never even think of complimenting her because it is obvious that she is hot and men dig her so why state the obvious when it makes much more sense to pretend to not be impressed by her looks like most other men are? And if I date those who aren't hot or particularly interesting by any means, I wouldn't compliment because I hate lying.
utterer of lies Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 I'll compliment a woman on a date, nothing over the top just sincere. In this last year and a half I have been on 10 dates and not one of those women complimented me on anything. Not a shirt, shoes smile or anything. I'm not saying I WANT this or seek this I'm just saying with all the confidence threads on this forum have any women been bold enough to compliment you on a date? Honest question! Yes. They usually compliment me on being less evil than they thought. Of course then I can say "but I am", and later (if they complain) "I told you so on the first date.".
Emilia Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 When I date a good-looking woman (almost never happens) I would never even think of complimenting her because it is obvious that she is hot and men dig her so why state the obvious when it makes much more sense to pretend to not be impressed by her looks like most other men are? If you date from an insecure perspective, it becomes very obvious to the attractive partner. And if I date those who aren't hot or particularly interesting by any means, I wouldn't compliment because I hate lying. Why bother dating women you are not attracted to?
Imported Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 All the time, on lots of things. One of the weider ones was being told I had really nice thighs. Never really occurred to me that women can be into guys legs.
rocketman122 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Not at all, except some meaningless stuff like having nice blue eyes or whatever. And I usually don't give them compliments either. When I date a good-looking woman (almost never happens) I would never even think of complimenting her because it is obvious that she is hot and men dig her so why state the obvious when it makes much more sense to pretend to not be impressed by her looks like most other men are? And if I date those who aren't hot or particularly interesting by any means, I wouldn't compliment because I hate lying. Youre a good looking guy by the pic. im not gay/bi/curious and I have no problem saying a guy is good looking. so I wonder why you have a hard time finding good looking woman to date. and also why date woman you arent attracted to? waste of time and money, no? I have no problem telling abeautiful woman she's beautiful. even though she knows she is and people tell her some have low self esteem. besides it only does good to a relationship to compliment/show her/flirt with her..it does wonders..but only do those things if its how you feel. but no need to pretend. either you are a warm expressive person or you arent. and me, I could not be with a woman who isnt because this is how I am.
bac Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 But it means nothing. Just part of the game. Yes, it often means nothing. It means that a girl/a guy is experienced at dating. You have to flirt on a date. It is regular flirting. Some complements are not even true and they have said just to have some fun.
Ruby Slippers Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Of course. I let him compliment and flirt first, then I respond. Compliments and flirting are fun - and essential to developing attraction and a bond.
ThaWholigan Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 I have been complimented quite a few times, on weird things too (girls like a guys ass, that's funny). 2
rocketman122 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 girls like a guys ass, that's funny Not at all funny. I work heavy squats/ deadlifts/ stiff legged deadlifts to get my rear rock hard. looks great when I wear my gigo underwear..nothing more of a turn off then a guy or girl with a flat ass..woman love a great rear on a guy..especially grabbing it when youre on top 1
rocketman122 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Yes, it often means nothing. It means that a girl/a guy is experienced at dating. You have to flirt on a date. It is regular flirting. Some complements are not even true and they have said just to have some fun. speak for yourself. I only say what I feel. I will not compliment for the eff of it just to flirt.what I say is sincere and true. thats fake. I can also tell how fake you are by how you say it, which is more important.
ThaWholigan Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 girls like a guys ass, that's funny Not at all funny. I work heavy squats/ deadlifts/ stiff legged deadlifts to get my rear rock hard. looks great when I wear my gigo underwear..nothing more of a turn off then a guy or girl with a flat ass..woman love a great rear on a guy..especially grabbing it when youre on top Well, it was news to me until I was complimented on it several times in the space of a few years. Squats and deadlifts do indeed payoff
Art_Critic Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Guys are you ever complimented on dates?? When I was single I was complimented after...
kaylan Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 I havent been traditionally dating recently....but Ive gotten compliments from chick friends and girls I have been seeing in the past. I usually get compliments for my smile and my style of dress. 1
Shaun-Dro Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 I'll compliment a woman on a date, nothing over the top just sincere. In this last year and a half I have been on 10 dates and not one of those women complimented me on anything. Not a shirt, shoes smile or anything. I'm not saying I WANT this or seek this I'm just saying with all the confidence threads on this forum have any women been bold enough to compliment you on a date? Honest question! Honestly, most men will usually get a compliment from a woman who isn't interested in them romantically. With that, there's no real risk or any fear of not getting a proper response in return, so it's easier for them to pass off the compliment genuinely. Also, they don't have to worry about any misinterpretations on behalf of the man receiving the compliment, because they aren't dating nor will be.
threebyfate Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Something to take note of, when considering compliments. This is applicable to both genders. If someone compliments you, watch for patterns in what they compliment you on. If most of the compliments are about your looks, you know exactly what they value you for and if that's the case, run, run like the wind! 1
ThaWholigan Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Something to take note of, when considering compliments. This is applicable to both genders. If someone compliments you, watch for patterns in what they compliment you on. If most of the compliments are about your looks, you know exactly what they value you for and if that's the case, run, run like the wind! Interesting. I actually preferred being complimented on something physical, but that's mostly because I always get complimented on being smart or something like that. After a while it was kinda like "I know, I know..." Is that bad? 1
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