kahn2154 Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 I recently had a girl lose interest in me and kept thinking over what I had done wrong since she was really into me. I had two females recently tell me it could of just been the fact she was moving and didn't want to get emotionally attached. Now, she has cut all contact, on top of that when I went for a hand hold on our last date I heard her say "oh god". She still gave me a long good night kiss to end the date though. Could this have been an actual reason or are the two women I talked to just being nice and try to spare me? This girl really liked me but I got so many mixed signals at the end I just have no idea.
MercuryMorrison1 Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 In what context did she say ''Oh god'' when you tried to hold her hand? If she sounded disgusted then she's probably just been playing you...If she sounded sad and possibly about to cry, then most likely it has to do with the fact she's moving away and doesn't want the emotional attachment.
Author kahn2154 Posted August 9, 2012 Author Posted August 9, 2012 In what context did she say ''Oh god'' when you tried to hold her hand? If she sounded disgusted then she's probably just been playing you...If she sounded sad and possibly about to cry, then most likely it has to do with the fact she's moving away and doesn't want the emotional attachment. I'm just getting more and more confused the more I think about this I'm not sure, it's been a while now and she kind of mumbled it. But trying to remember it doesn't sound like it was either disgust or sadness. She loosely held my hand for a bit then broke it off fixing her hair later. But right after she tried to nicely ditch me....then gave me a long good night kiss. Two days later she played a game on iphone with me. Then proceeded to cut all contact with me. I'm so confused as to whether she just lost interest and doesn't want to see me again or it was her not wanting to get emotionally attached due to a move. It doesn't make sense that we got along so well and then she decides she doesn't even want to talk to me anymore.
Failboy Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I'm so confused as to whether she just lost interest and doesn't want to see me again or it was her not wanting to get emotionally attached due to a move. It doesn't make sense that we got along so well and then she decides she doesn't even want to talk to me anymore. That happens to me all the time. I can't tell you why they do it, but they do it.. often. I remember how I went through every single damn memory to figure out where I went wrong or what type of signal I missed and so on. It's not worth it, man. Sometimes you do everything right and it still is not quite enough for some reason. Just appreciate the beautiful moments you shared, noone can take those away from you... at this point, there is nothing you can do. If you keep texting her or whatever, you will just look needy, turn her off and feel like a rejected loser. Just let it go, it's better this way. Trust me. Been there before. Many times.
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