She doesn't love me

[Chunky]

Today my girlfriend told me she doesn't love me. She's also moving away too. She's going to move in with a handicapped lady to help her with daily living. I'm very broken up by this. I thought that she would be the one for me but she says she's not in love with me. As I'm writing this, it all seems surreal to me. It hurts badly. I cried for a while this afternoon and I'm sure I'll cry again tonight. This is hitting me hard. She sent me mixed signal. From hand holding to kissing to sex. I don't get it. I've treated her like a queen. Buying nice things for her and spending time with her. It's over. I wish I knew what to do. I am so lonely.

[durentu]

Just focus on making yourself a better person. Not for some girl, but for yourself.

 

"make yourself an honest man, so that there will be one less rascal running around" - carlyle.

[mortensorchid]

How long have you been with this woman? If it's only been a few weeks, then you should not be hurting too badly. If it's been years, then it will hurt more. On the plus side, it's a good thing that you found this out now rather than later, otherwise it will be really horrible.

 

Time heals all wounds, it just does. You'll be ok.

[robdrm32]

let it out; cry. Then try to occupy yourself and do whatever you can to get rid of things that will remind you of her. The sooner you start the healing process the better. trying to reason with her won't help her mind is made up. do your best to move on you'll be alright

[El Brujo]

Don't feel bad, Chunky. It's not your fault that women are incapable of love.

 

But the good news is, if you're at rock bottom, the only place you can go is up. I understand what you're going through now, and you should take the opportunity to build yourself up into the guy women WISH they had---and then turn them down each and every one, just to rub their faces in it. >:-)

[Chunky]

Please pray for me. I am having a hard time right now. Thanks.