ilovedhim Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 (edited) Today i found out my esteemed ex transferred jobs and now works ONE block from the building i live in. He works in retail and there are atleast not kidding a hundred of these establishments scattered all over NYC. What gets me is he doesn't even live in this city anymore! He got hitched and moved to Jersey!!! Any ideas how to rectify this nightmare of a situation? i was going to talk to him about it but I've been NC 7 months and really don't want the chaos this might bring. This is causing me major stress not to mention my current bf is livid as he wanted me to move early on. I told myself that i wouldn't let this bother me but here i am on LS. So upset. I couldn't stop thinking about it all day. Edited August 8, 2012 by ilovedhim
jackiki Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 If you are up to it and it is possible, start looking for a new flat elsewhere. It is always good to start fresh...and figuring out a new part of the city!
Author ilovedhim Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 My apartment has been on the market since last november. I own so isn't easy. bf suggested to rent it out and move in with him but i'm not for the living together thing.
KatZee Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 (edited) Tell me where he works... I'll drop by on my lunch break and throw rocks at him. I may or may not be joking. I really don't know what to say though... he clearly knows where you live, could have worked at any of these scattered all over NYC... (is it by chance a McDonald's? He doesn't sound smart enough to work anywhere else.) Do you have any plans on moving? Do you fully own or are you still paying it off? If you own it fully can you sublet and use the rent that they pay to rent your own apartment for the time being? Edited August 8, 2012 by KatZee
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