Sheppy99 Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 (edited) So I'm doing a lot better. Been 3 weeks roughly since the break up. Basically we had 2 months of amazing times together but out of no where she realized she never got over her ex and it ended abruptly. Needless to say I was shocked. Anyways lately I've been really worried about her but I hope I'm overreacting... She told me bits and pieces of her past and from what I can tell she battles depression although I never seen it in the short time we were together. She told me she took a whole bottle of pills of some sort but doesn't remember any of it last year sometime. Said it was a hard time for her but she is a lot better. From everything I saw and how happy she was around me I believed it. When she ended things with me she said she needed to get away so she left to go live in a completely different city. Left all her family and friends here (including me and her ex) which I think she thought would help her. But people with depression usually try to seclude themselves from everyone else which worries me too...... The other thing is FB, she is a big FB person. We're talking hundreds of pics on there. She hasn't had any FB activity since our relationship ended over 3 weeks ago. Normally that wouldn't strike me as anything out of the ordinary for 99 percent of people but for her it is strange and especially with the other 2 things I mentioned on top of that. I've talked to her twice and she just doesn't seem herself but I mean that could just be the normal ex bf ex gf awkward monologue that you would normally get. Am I overreacting or do I have reason for concern? There's really no way for me to talk to her about this cause I'm the ex and she would never admit anything to me to show weakness anyways. I'm just not in the greatest place to bring something like that up right now in her life. I think I'm part of what she was trying to escape from moving away but probably more so her ex bf. I pray I'm being paranoid but what if I'm right I just don't know how I could ever be ok if something happened to her...... Edited August 8, 2012 by Sheppy99
flitzanu Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 you're overreacting. you're trying to validate some reason to reach out to her, and you shouldn't.
Lone Blue Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Leave it alone. If there really is a problem, someone else will be there to help her take care of it.
Author Sheppy99 Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 Thanks guys, you're right. I guess I just feel some sort of responsibility that put her into this weird tailspin where she completely cut herself off from everyone and everything. But if this is what she needs to do to get her mind right, than hopefully thats all it is. Just with a history of depression and lack of support around her. I started to worry. I am completely over the girl romantically, she could date someone else and it wouldn't bother me. I just hope she's ok
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