Occu3.14'd Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 I'm playing devil's advocate a little, so hear me out. I notice that a lot of advice around here seems to revolve around "focusing on improving yourself." Why? What if I was perfectly happy with who I was before our relationship? Why do I need to improve myself if there wasn't anything wrong in the first place? When I think of who I was and what I did before our relationship, I'm really no different now than I was before. Except now I'm miserable, where before I was not. What gives?
hinatticus Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 You're miserable now, hence focus on improving yourself to how you were happy before. 1
amaysngrace Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 I think if you consume yourself with thoughts of you then you'll have less and less thoughts of her. Breakups are hard. They leave you low. So it's wise to use your time doing things that will put you on top of your game as soon as possible. In other words, do something productive rather than wallowing in self pity.
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