robaday Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 How do you handle it when your dating someone and in the initial stages they display a lot of jealousy? Ive wondered this a few times. This girl I was seeing kept asking me if i was sleeping with other people. Wed only been out for a month or so, and id given her no reasons to think i had been. Her argument was it was fair to ask, because we werent in a serious relationship yet. My argument was that its ok to ask once, but if you ask repeatedly (she asked four times) its wayy too much at those early stages. Essentially, I agree with the argument over sexual health, but I feel in the early stages, prior to you both agreeing your monogamous, its nobody's business. Any thoughts?
Lonely Ronin Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 what did you tell her the first time she asked?
InJest Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 It's fine to ask, if she's sleeping with you. Not cool to ask everyday or whatever. If you like her, just tell her that you're not going to sleep with anyone else, and if you are going to then you'll tell her.
Author robaday Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 haha, good question, said no im not seeing anyone else. I wonder sometimes when these things arise, whether they are the ones seeing other people!
InJest Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 To answer your initial question of how do I handle it when someone shows a lot of jealousy initially..I write off any chance of something serious coming out of it, and bang her until I find the next girl.
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