Yeahsussu Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 I´ve been dating this wonderful guy for about 1,5 month now and it´s great. We hit it off immediately and we even had sex on the first date, we can both kinda laugh at that now since none of us though that would happen. Anyhow, I really like this man and he´s told me he likes me too. But here is my problem, everytime we start to talk about our feelings I kinda freeze. He´s a very open person and says what he feels, while I get a bit shy when it comes to that. He´s told me several times that he´s not only seeing me to get sex, and last weekend he said he wants something "more". And then I mean more like a relationship. I was of course super happy to hear that but as ususal I freeze and i just smiled and kinda said "yeah". Duuh! I sent him a mail on facebook yesterday and asked when he´s coming to my town (we live about 1,5 hour apart), but I haven´t got any answer yet, which is a bit weird. Did he get sick of me in just one day?
amantis Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 You are dating him for more then one month m you should be talking with him by phone . Im a bit like him , but i have to feel that the girl is into me and i would expect more then a yeah ... im not saying that he isnt going to see anymore , but im saying that if you like him you have to show him .
Author Yeahsussu Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 You are dating him for more then one month m you should be talking with him by phone . Im a bit like him , but i have to feel that the girl is into me and i would expect more then a yeah ... im not saying that he isnt going to see anymore , but im saying that if you like him you have to show him . I´ve told him many times that I like spending time with him and that I like him. When we´re together I´m very affectionate since I like to cuddle and kiss. I´m just scared of scaring him away if I say the things that I really want to say (that i think I´m crazy in love with him and I can see myself in a long term relationship with him!). And I don´t wanna come off as needy or so, even though he´s told me that i can call or text him whenever i want. But still..
truth_seeker Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Stop being afraid! Avoid the "I'm crazy in love" part but do share your feelings about how much you like to spend time with him and see him being your boyfriend. 2
Leopard Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Well in a lot of ways shy = boring. If you are too shy to talk about feelings, to do interesting things or to have great conversations (especially with a person who enjoys these things) you will become boring and he will eventually lose interest. 1
Author Yeahsussu Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 Well in a lot of ways shy = boring. If you are too shy to talk about feelings, to do interesting things or to have great conversations (especially with a person who enjoys these things) you will become boring and he will eventually lose interest. I do love to have great conversations with him about random things, but for some reason when it comes to sharing my feelings for him I get a bit scared, which is a bit silly since he´s told me he do like me and would like to spend more time with me. However, we do have a bit of an "interresting" relationship since we speak two different languages, he can´t speak my language that well but I can speak his somewhat OK, but still not fluent. Therefore it is a bit harder for me to express myself. He understands this and is OK with it, cause he knows I´m trying my best and I´m learning new things all the time.
Alex888 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Heyy can you please answer me one question? It would mean a lot, please just message me or quote this reply, I'll explain why it's so important to me. I know I sound crazy but please just respond, I really want to ask you somethig.
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