Nycclueless Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Alright. Im really desperate for an answer so im writing this entry. So my date and i had a great first date.. Talked for hours and found a mutual interest in eachother. At the end of the night, the guy got me the cab and i took off after we had a long make out. It was getting a bit steamy so we stepped back and we said our goodbyes. The next day 9am sharp, he texts me that he had a great time and he would like to see me again the following week.. So we left it at that but this guy was not calling nor texting me so i got frustrated.. But acted all cool-- and texted him first.. Our date was Weds and i texted him Sunday night--and asked him how he is doing and all and then after a short greetings, he asked me how my week is so i told him that it wasnt so bad so we scheduled for another date on the following weds... But he was to choose the place and text me.. Did not get anything 'til like 10 am on weds so I texted him and asked him to confirm our appointment. So he did and we met that night.. We talked alot, hugged, kissed, flirted... He stopped himself from touching me since we were in public. At the end of the night, i had to tell him, " you know, i'm a woman. We need our attention. I just wished you texted or call a bit more.. I mean i even had to confirm our Appt--:(" so he says,"i know. Im just so bad with contacting! I'll work on that." Afterwards. I thought it was evident that he was going to text me or call.. NADA-- and it's sunday night. Now i know that he is going away for the weekend but first of all, text does not take that long. Secondly, prior to texting, we were emailing and more often than once a week! Is this his way of telling me that he's nota that in to me? Or is he playing the game? My gal friends thinkit's a bit shady the fact that we only went out for drinks and not a dinner.. I thought it was because he was a bit shy.. Am i bugging out for no reason? But if you are genuinely interested, isnt like few texts the basic? Im not asking for all day long contacting... But i think this is way too painful... It sucks bcuz i really liked the guy. He wasnt that cute.. Well,most of my ex bfs were super hot.. But we just clicked and i loved that. So should i wait or move on? And if i do wait, bow long do i need to wait? j
madjac74 Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Alright. Im really desperate for an answer so im writing this entry. So my date and i had a great first date.. Talked for hours and found a mutual interest in eachother. At the end of the night, the guy got me the cab and i took off after we had a long make out. It was getting a bit steamy so we stepped back and we said our goodbyes. The next day 9am sharp, he texts me that he had a great time and he would like to see me again the following week.. So we left it at that but this guy was not calling nor texting me so i got frustrated.. But acted all cool-- and texted him first.. Our date was Weds and i texted him Sunday night--and asked him how he is doing and all and then after a short greetings, he asked me how my week is so i told him that it wasnt so bad so we scheduled for another date on the following weds... But he was to choose the place and text me.. Did not get anything 'til like 10 am on weds so I texted him and asked him to confirm our appointment. So he did and we met that night.. We talked alot, hugged, kissed, flirted... He stopped himself from touching me since we were in public. At the end of the night, i had to tell him, " you know, i'm a woman. We need our attention. I just wished you texted or call a bit more.. I mean i even had to confirm our Appt--:(" so he says,"i know. Im just so bad with contacting! I'll work on that." Afterwards. I thought it was evident that he was going to text me or call.. NADA-- and it's sunday night. Now i know that he is going away for the weekend but first of all, text does not take that long. Secondly, prior to texting, we were emailing and more often than once a week! Is this his way of telling me that he's nota that in to me? Or is he playing the game? My gal friends thinkit's a bit shady the fact that we only went out for drinks and not a dinner.. I thought it was because he was a bit shy.. Am i bugging out for no reason? But if you are genuinely interested, isnt like few texts the basic? Im not asking for all day long contacting... But i think this is way too painful... It sucks bcuz i really liked the guy. He wasnt that cute.. Well,most of my ex bfs were super hot.. But we just clicked and i loved that. So should i wait or move on? And if i do wait, bow long do i need to wait? j Sad to say, my first thought is he isn't that interested. I live a busy life to the point where I lose contact with people during the week but if it is a girl I am interested in then I am going to text her or call her and apologize that I get busy with work and let her know that it is no way a reflection of how I feel about her.
Author Nycclueless Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 Sad to say, my first thought is he isn't that interested. I live a busy life to the point where I lose contact with people during the week but if it is a girl I am interested in then I am going to text her or call her and apologize that I get busy with work and let her know that it is no way a reflection of how I feel about her. @madjac-- yeah that's what I thought as well but it seems like this is the "usual" NY guy thing to do.. i'm not sure.
Emilia Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 At the end of the night, i had to tell him, " you know, i'm a woman. We need our attention. I just wished you texted or call a bit more.. I mean i even had to confirm our Appt--:(" so he says,"i know. Im just so bad with contacting! I'll work on that." Afterwards. I thought it was evident that he was going to text me or call.. NADA-- and it's sunday night. He doesn't care enough. Don't make excuses for him 1
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