jrh1524 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I've come to a strange conclusion: I do not like most women. Don't get me wrong, I like a whole lotta women and can remain friendly with most women, but I would say I dislike about 60%+ of the women I meet. Most women now days are stuck up bitches with a horray-for-me-and-f-everyone-else attitute. I just dated a girl and found out she fell in to the 60%+ category of women and had to drop her. I just couldn't stand to be around her anymore. I get along with most men I meet. Am I abnormal or do other male posters feel the same way as me?
proseandpassion Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 How old are you, OP? What is your life situation - in school, work, etc? I LIKE most women I meet. But I live in a metropolitan area, I hang out people who are for the most part counter culture (punks/goths/weirdos), and I work in a creative environment full of open minded folks. So.... there ya go. But in high school, growing up in a tiny town, I hated almost everyone I met, too.
Ross MwcFan Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I've come to a strange conclusion: I do not like most women. Don't get me wrong, I like a whole lotta women and can remain friendly with most women, but I would say I dislike about 60%+ of the women I meet. Most women now days are stuck up bitches with a horray-for-me-and-f-everyone-else attitute. I just dated a girl and found out she fell in to the 60%+ category of women and had to drop her. I just couldn't stand to be around her anymore. I get along with most men I meet. Am I abnormal or do other male posters feel the same way as me? I don't think it's that abnormal as I think there are some places where a lot of women are bitches. But it's not like that everywhere. Where I used to live a LOT of women were bitches, they had like a '**** you' attitude, unless they saw you as attractive or 'cool'. A lot of guys were dicks too. Where I live now though, a lot of women, and men seem like nice friendly people without any kind of an attitude.
Author jrh1524 Posted August 3, 2012 Author Posted August 3, 2012 I'm 32 and live in an affluent neighborhood north of Houston called The Woodlands. Maybe its just the area that I'm in that makes me a bit jaded. Most women out here are well to do and have an entitled attitude. Maybe I should move to down town Houston to meet more friendly women?
udolipixie Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I don't think you're abnormal as my opinion is that most men don't like most women rather like women's bodies. Nor is it abnormal to me to think most women are stuck up bitches as it seems most men apply that label when a women isn't giving her attention and time to him. The horray-for-me-and-f-everyone-else attitude seems to be a societal thing I see equally among the genders however it seems more noticeable in women as they get called on it more since they're expected to be more compassionate, empathic, and etc because they have a vagina. 7
sally4sara Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I don't like a lot of people. I don't bother taking note of what gender a person is when I realize I don't like them either. I don't like people who take note of gender when assessing the worth of others. Its bigotry. No different that taking note of skin color or sexual orientation above all else. I guess that puts you in the 60% not worth knowing category too huh? 2
Ross MwcFan Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I'm 32 and live in an affluent neighborhood north of Houston called The Woodlands. Maybe its just the area that I'm in that makes me a bit jaded. Most women out here are well to do and have an entitled attitude. Maybe I should move to down town Houston to meet more friendly women? Moving is a good idea. Just try and make sure that a lot of the people definatley are nice in whatever area that you want to move to before you move there.
Author jrh1524 Posted August 3, 2012 Author Posted August 3, 2012 I don't hate most women, I just dislike most women. I'd be a bigot if I hated most women.
sally4sara Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I don't hate most women, I just dislike most women. I'd be a bigot if I hated most women. Hurray for me and everyone who is not you!
Shaun-Dro Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I've come to a strange conclusion: I do not like most women. Don't get me wrong, I like a whole lotta women and can remain friendly with most women, but I would say I dislike about 60%+ of the women I meet. Most women now days are stuck up bitches with a horray-for-me-and-f-everyone-else attitute. I just dated a girl and found out she fell in to the 60%+ category of women and had to drop her. I just couldn't stand to be around her anymore. I get along with most men I meet. Am I abnormal or do other male posters feel the same way as me? The self-entitled attitude of most women these days is not surprise. There has to be some great validation to it since I've seen multiple threads on it. I also think it has a lot to do with the types of women many men choose to deal with. Might have to tweak that selection for better results.
Woggle Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I like women but I get the feeling a lot of women don't like men.
january2011 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Given the vitriol posted by a number of guys in the Dating forum in particular, I'd say that there are a number of guys who hate women. There are also a number of guys who love and like women. Since you say that you merely "dislike" rather than "hate" it seems that you are not in good company with your milder emotion.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I don't hate most women, I just dislike most women. I'd be a bigot if I hated most women. Change "women" for "african american/asian/muslim/christian" person and see if bigotry doesn't still apply. 1
Ross MwcFan Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Hurray for me and everyone who is not you! You sound like one of those women that he's talking about.
Ross MwcFan Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Change "women" for "african american/asian/muslim/christian" person and see if bigotry doesn't still apply. What's wrong with what he's saying if women/muslims/asians/whatever are actually *******s where he lives? He's then only stating a fact.
sally4sara Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 You sound like one of those women that he's talking about. And you sound like you don't get sarcasm.
anne1707 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 What's wrong with what he's saying if women/muslims/asians/whatever are actually *******s where he lives? He's then only stating a fact. Are you being serious Ross? How about if it was "I dislike most men" - would that make you think it was bigotry? Just because a person feels a certain way, does not mean it is right. Hitler hated Jews - was that right just because he felt that way?
Im_Thinking Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Where I live, women and men do come in a multitude of personalities. In dating I have come to realize that I shouldn't judge or cop someone into a "Insecure bucket" or a "This girl is stuck up." Although, I will say that not too long ago I was meeting some very mean and highly abrasive women. However, its their issue; not mine. I blame culture really. It seems as if it is the cool thing to hate each other and put each other down. Well, that's what is marketed to youth these days. However, I have recently met plenty of men and women who are outstanding folks. Those people really give me hope in society. I actually feel sympathetic to women. In America especially, women live a life of double standards. Is she showing skin? Slut. Showing not enough skin? Insecure. She dates a man? She is desperate. Oh hey, but you have to date someone... But don't be desperate... Uh... She helps people? She is fake, no girl would help someone. She should be helped. But if she doesn't help, then she isn't someone you want to be around. She is financially independent? Good for her! But she still needs support. The list goes on and on. I agree with you to a point... In my experience, many girls are mean. The same is said for men though. However, I don't hold someone accountable for another person's mistakes. Guilt by association is just wrong. Don't be like a cop! 1
Ross MwcFan Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Are you being serious Ross? How about if it was "I dislike most men" - would that make you think it was bigotry? Just because a person feels a certain way, does not mean it is right. Hitler hated Jews - was that right just because he felt that way? So if someone is an ******* towards you or to others, you shouldn't see them as an ******* and you should like them? Are YOU serious?
Ross MwcFan Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 And you sound like you don't get sarcasm. So you were just having a friendly joke with him then and didn't mean any offense?
anne1707 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 So if someone is an ******* towards you or to others, you shouldn't see them as an ******* and you should like them? Are YOU serious? If an individual is an ***** to me or others, I will see that individual as an **** and not like them. However I will not think that anybody of their gender/race/religion/sexuality... is also an ***** by default. 1
Ross MwcFan Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 If an individual is an ***** to me or others, I will see that individual as an **** and not like them. However I will not think that anybody of their gender/race/religion/sexuality... is also an ***** by default. I'm talking about a lot or most people of a gender or race being an ******* towards you or others, and seeing a lot or most of that gender or race as *******s.
anne1707 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I'm talking about a lot or most people of a gender or race being an ******* towards you or others, and seeing a lot or most of that gender or race as *******s. That is not my experience of life. Is that yours?
Ross MwcFan Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 So you were just having a friendly joke with him then and didn't mean any offense? Actually forget that, as being sarcastic towards someone isn't exactly having a friendly joke with them and not meaning any offense, which means my point still stands. So what does the point that I made have to do with getting sarcasm or not?
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