kushal Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 we were in a relationship and i started loving her more than myself. but she had sex with another guy after 3 months of our relationship and did not tell me about all this. but when i asked that guy coincidently he told me all those things that after having sex with me this girl was sending me a lot of senti sms that please be in touch with me and i will not see any other guy except you. but she started talking to me lovingly after having sex with him also. but when i get to know i have no problem as i love her very much i can accept her in any way. but she said to me that he is the only and only guy in his life. and he cant leave without him please get away from my life. i hate you. i know there is no chance to getting her back as she has feelings for him after sex. but i just want to be formal friends with her only. as i dont want that she hates me as i love her very much. she has a birthday nxt week. i think after wishing her on her birthday i will contact her after 2 months.. is it right? as i lose her so i just wanna do a last try after 2 months...
The dot Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 we were in a relationship and i started loving her more than myself. but she had sex with another guy after 3 months of our relationship and did not tell me about all this. but when i asked that guy coincidently he told me all those things that after having sex with me this girl was sending me a lot of senti sms that please be in touch with me and i will not see any other guy except you. but she started talking to me lovingly after having sex with him also. but when i get to know i have no problem as i love her very much i can accept her in any way. but she said to me that he is the only and only guy in his life. and he cant leave without him please get away from my life. i hate you. i know there is no chance to getting her back as she has feelings for him after sex. but i just want to be formal friends with her only. as i dont want that she hates me as i love her very much. she has a birthday nxt week. i think after wishing her on her birthday i will contact her after 2 months.. is it right? as i lose her so i just wanna do a last try after 2 months... Dude, you are way too needy for your own good. You need to spend some time alone to get over your neediness. This was the reason you lost her in the first place, and the reason why this will keep happening again and again if you don't take my advice. The fact is, a man can never be friends with a woman who he has feelings for. His desire for her will always get in the way, and you're only holding onto the friends thing because you still want her back (even though she dumped you for someone else and really doesn't care about you). You need to get right away from her with the intention of never speaking to her again. Show some self-respect and don't tolerate people treating you like that. Otherwise, nobody will respect you.
Author kushal Posted August 3, 2012 Author Posted August 3, 2012 i agree with you dude...... but i just love her very much and i know i have to move on! but i dont want that we will become starngers again... thats my pint dude! and i know that guy is not right for her but i have nothing to do with that. i just want that she comes back in my life. i cant move on cant dude! i attached with her very very much. and just tell me should i wish her happy birthday. i want to show him on that day that i am completely changed i am not that naive guy as i was previous. i wanna show her that i moved on!
The dot Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 i agree with you dude...... but i just love her very much and i know i have to move on! but i dont want that we will become starngers again... thats my pint dude! and i know that guy is not right for her but i have nothing to do with that. i just want that she comes back in my life. i cant move on cant dude! i attached with her very very much. and just tell me should i wish her happy birthday. i want to show him on that day that i am completely changed i am not that naive guy as i was previous. i wanna show her that i moved on! If you can't move on, check into therapy. Incidentally, your situation is why I say that nobody should ever get into a serious relationship before age 25. Until then, just date a variety of people on a casual basis and have fun. If you were seeing several different people instead of just one, you wouldn't be so attached and so pathetic right now.
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