lillyrose553 Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I'm a 15 year old girl and was dumped about a month ago from my first love. He promised me the world. Said he'd never leave me that he'd marry me and he loved me more than anything in the world. We were together for almost 7 months I was so happy with him. But after a small fight one night he went the entire next day without texting me or talking to me. I called and called until he finally called back at around 9. He told me he loved me but he wasn't ready for a relationship and didn't want a girl friend. I stayed on the phone begging him not to leave but he just said he was sorry, he just lost feelings for me and and hung up. I later found out he was talking bad about me to his football buddies at practice. Saying I was crazy and I treated him like crap. I TREATED HIM LIKE GOLD... 3 days later he was already going out with a girl named Karli. Saying he loved her so much and she was amazing and doing everything we used to do. Its not fair I'm in bed crying while he's out with his friends and other girls perfectly happy. I don't know what I did wrong. Its almost been a month and I still can't think about him without a that pit in my stomach. Wondering what could have been, what I did wrong, how he just moved on like we never knew each other. Help?
Sav Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Hi, I'm going through a breakup of my own right now and honestly the feeling really sucks. But I still remember the pain from my breakup from my 1st love of 4 years. To tell the truth, i took 2 years to get over my 1st love. I can tell you what NOT to do. Do not ever ever suffer in silence by yourself. Talk to your friends and go out and KEEP everything that reminds you of him. Go NC until you are totally fine. It's really the only way I know and I'm doing it now :\ goodluck with that and really? it sounds you can do better (he sounds like a total jerk)
Canadian731 Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 You are young, why get so caught up on one guy, you said you only dated for 7 months so take it as a learning lesson that guys your age are *******s. I don't recommend getting into a serious relationship until you are atleast 18-19, people your age just aren't ready to only ever date one person. Trust me there will be more boys for you which will treat you better then this one.
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