Anamikaa Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Hi, I am married with a 15month old kid and 7mnth pregnant. My husband and I work together since March this year. We have been married for almost three years and we have an age gap of almost 10 years. Eversince my son was born we had many problems including his mum interfering and being all bossy with the kid. We eventually seeked counselling and managed to resolve it for a while. In March this year i found out i was pregnant. I was shocked and did not want to continue with the pregnancy. My problem is that I feel like i want out of the marriage. I feel like my feelings have changed towards him and for the sake of my son and the one on the way we should make things work. At the same time his mum and I do not get a long and i cannot seem to work things out with her as well. Please help. Im at a point where i dont know what to do. From last night i have been distant from my husband and i can see he notices as his bbm statuses are quite nasty.
TaraMaiden Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 (What's "bbm"....?) I think you need to speak to your doctor about some counselling, because firstly, being pregnant, your emotions are more likely to be volatile and unpredictable anyway, so much of what you're going through is not good for you or the baby...secondly you need some professional help to guide you through something you personally cannot find your way through, on your own... You need some kind of support network....
Author Anamikaa Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 BBM - Blackberry Messenger I know this is not healthy for the both. I just need peace
TaraMaiden Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I think you need to find an outlet. As I said, if you have a doctor's appointment scheduled, contact the clinic and advise the receptionist you wish to speak with the doctor on a personal matter you wish to have some help with - this at least prepares the doctor for additional considerations. You need to speak with someone, particularly also about your relationship with his mother... And counselling for both of you may well help. I get the impression English is not your mother tongue, and that you're either not based in, or from a naturally English-speaking country.... Would I be right? (Edit: I've just seen "South Africa" as your location.....)
Author Anamikaa Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 I am born south african but Indian. Thank you for the advise. I have my appointment with the doctor tomorrow morning. Will see how it goes
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