Just broke Up Badly...

[once]

I need to tell you this i have never experienced anything like this before and i do not want in future...

I met this girl a month ago and we start seeing , texting and calling each other every single day and we became girlfriend and boyfriend, i know the time is short but it happened we were both looking for relationship.

but on this last saturday things have changed to worst, we decided to go out on saturday night but i lost her contact for several hours , i text and called with no response at all...i got really mad and here i did a huge mistake...i drove my car and went to the place where we suppose to meet and tried to look for her there, i had the feeling she might be there, and yes i saw her with 3 other friends 1 girl and 2 guys, i approached her and said "hey", she saw me and got in shock and puled me on the side and we talked , she said i should go home and not be here, and those are her close friends only and there is nothing to worry about.

I personally not a believer in friendship between a guy and girl, cuz this friendships never last and they are some reason behind it.

than how can i leave? I'm there its to late.

one of the guys approached me and we had some dry conversation while my girlfriend left us alone, these 2 guys they start to talk bad about my girlfriend to me and not even respecting me there as a friend.

I couldn't take it no more and i got in to bad physical fight with this 2 guys ( I'm not calling myself hero ), but there was nothing else i can do, by the time my girlfriend came back the fight was there and everything screwed up.

but here is the thing she does not believe me that her friends talk bad about her and thats why i fought, she blamed me for everything.

well tell me what you guys have done if you were in my shoes over there? just stand there and leave home like loser? or do what i did?

after the fight i left home, i tried to contact her the whole next day but she did not respond me at all, i tried to call several times and text so many times.

now its been 4 days that i stopped calling and texting and still didn't heard anything from her.

the thing is she believes to her friends and not me...cuz she was not present during our conversation.

 

now i need your opinion and advice guys...

i want to get in touch with her somehow and continue our relation . i know i left bad expression on her and did a big mistake but there should be a way to fix this.

 

what should i do to get her back?

[todreaminblue]

I need to tell you this i have never experienced anything like this before and i do not want in future...

I met this girl a month ago and we start seeing , texting and calling each other every single day and we became girlfriend and boyfriend, i know the time is short but it happened we were both looking for relationship.

but on this last saturday things have changed to worst, we decided to go out on saturday night but i lost her contact for several hours , i text and called with no response at all...i got really mad and here i did a huge mistake...i drove my car and went to the place where we suppose to meet and tried to look for her there, i had the feeling she might be there, and yes i saw her with 3 other friends 1 girl and 2 guys, i approached her and said "hey", she saw me and got in shock and puled me on the side and we talked , she said i should go home and not be here, and those are her close friends only and there is nothing to worry about.

I personally not a believer in friendship between a guy and girl, cuz this friendships never last and they are some reason behind it.

than how can i leave? I'm there its to late.

one of the guys approached me and we had some dry conversation while my girlfriend left us alone, these 2 guys they start to talk bad about my girlfriend to me and not even respecting me there as a friend.

I couldn't take it no more and i got in to bad physical fight with this 2 guys ( I'm not calling myself hero ), but there was nothing else i can do, by the time my girlfriend came back the fight was there and everything screwed up.

but here is the thing she does not believe me that her friends talk bad about her and thats why i fought, she blamed me for everything.

well tell me what you guys have done if you were in my shoes over there? just stand there and leave home like loser? or do what i did?

after the fight i left home, i tried to contact her the whole next day but she did not respond me at all, i tried to call several times and text so many times.

now its been 4 days that i stopped calling and texting and still didn't heard anything from her.

the thing is she believes to her friends and not me...cuz she was not present during our conversation.

 

now i need your opinion and advice guys...

i want to get in touch with her somehow and continue our relation . i know i left bad expression on her and did a big mistake but there should be a way to fix this.

 

what should i do to get her back?

 

 

I would give space.I dont know if this can be fixed I would let go and move on and if the lady in question contacts you all is well but if she doesn't you are already on the road to recovery.It is too much of a mess to deal with I wish you the best....hugs...deb

[Chi townD]

she saw me and got in shock and puled me on the side and we talked , she said i should go home and not be here, and those are her close friends only and there is nothing to worry about.

 

I think you had plenty to be worried about. Dude, I can't believe that you didn't see that you busted her out on a date! If you were her boyfriend, then why did she looked shocked, she should have been smiling and happy to see you. Why did she pull you off to the side? She should have given you a hug and a kiss with a "Hi babe!"

From your post, it sounded like you approached them calmly and cool. You didn't seem worried, so why did she tell you not to worry? Why would your girlfriend tell you to go home when you just got there? Wouldn't she be proud to be on your arm that night?

 

Dude, you got into a fight for a girl that was cheating on you.

[blotter]

Yeah, the one time I saw my current girlfriend accidentally in town she was happy to see me, gave me a kiss, and then we went around town together. She wasn't hanging out with other dudes and then told me to leave so she could continue to hang out with other dudes. If she did that to me that would be the last time I talked to her.

[Car10e]

I know you probably don't want to hear this, but if she is treating you like this after only a month, it might not be good for you and her to continue.