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So, if your interested in background story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/338651-he-left-me-his-ex-wat-d

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So, my ex left me and started dating his ex two days after. It's been about a month and its 'facebook official'. We were best friends for three years before we started dating. He had been single for over a month after breaking up with his ex of two months. They broke up due to her lying and long distance.

 

They are now in a long distance relationship.

 

So, basically, I'm not going to speak to him again until they break up, in which case he'll probably come running back to me anyway.

 

Is it GIGS, or a rebound? I know he doesnt think him and her are going to last. >_>

 

Opinions? I feel stupid.

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They are now in a long distance relationship.

 

So, basically, I'm not going to speak to him again until they break up, in which case he'll probably come running back to me anyway.

 

This part is good. Always, always, always respect the relationship, whatever you might think of it. Right now, don't contact him or respond to contact unless you know for certain that they're broken up.

 

 

Is it GIGS, or a rebound? I know he doesnt think him and her are going to last.

 

It doesn't matter. It's still a relationship. The best thing you can do is treat it as real and move on.

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Anchord, ex's are like cellphones. To think, just a few years ago my iPhone 4 was the epitome of all that I wanted in a cellphone. It was reliable, fast, and pretty to look at. Guess what? Fast forward to 2012 and this thing feels obsolete...it's basically trash. Take this time to reflect on what you want and go for it. You due for an upgrade girl.

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