PrettyDecent Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Hi again, I posted a long, urgent thread here and got some good feedback. I still don't know what is going to happen in my incipient relationship with this woman, but one thing she has said is that she wants someone who will make her world bigger, not smaller. I think she hasn't made up her mind which way a relationship with me would go, but just the fact that she appears uncertain about it has made me question whether I am too timid in life, and what I could do to make someone's world bigger. One thing, I know, would be for me to meet more people and engage in more activities with others. But aside from that, does anyone have advice on this concept, and/or advice on whether this is just something where we are two different kinds of people and she would quickly grow disappointed with me if she didn't feel I was making her world bigger? I really, really like her but at the same time I would not want to be in a relationship with someone who thought I was making her world smaller. I think that would be kind of humiliating to me, even if she agreed to start down that path. Thanks for any help in interpreting her comment and in offering any advice.
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