yongyong Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 All women here are not skanks, not on anti depressant and they are all steady, stable and good ladies who deserves to be treated well right? :lmao: I am curious, why should men compliment women? Is it because you want to know your make up, push up bra, spanx, high heels, fake eye lashes are working or not? personally, I know I dress well. Even someone makes fun of it, it wouldn't really affect my self-esteem. Instead of relying on men's compliments, try to develop self-esteem. I think it works with attention whores and emotionally unhealthy women who seek constant approval. With good, steady, stable types it doesn't but then again those don't post photos of themselves wearing a bikini.
Imajerk17 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 If you are going to tell a woman she is beautiful, tell it to her to her face. That's pretty rare. Complimenting a woman's appearance on FB--well a lot of guys do that. And when it comes to doing something to get a woman's attraction, well, if it's something that 50 other guys did before you that very day then it's not likely to make her attracted to you. irc, I keep giving you this advice and you keep ignoring it: Have you considered moving?
Shaun-Dro Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Friend of mine has to laugh at all his male friends that are "enablers" to his other female friends in his Social FB network. He was telling me how, when a woman puts a picture of herself up posing in a swimsuit at a beach or her "night out on the town' dressed to the nines, they're always complimenting on how great she looks or how attractive she is. He feels , if you want to achieve success with women, to not participate in this...and THAT woman will find THAT particular guy attractive. Now, I tend to give compliments to a woman's appearance , but ONLY if I've known her pretty well, or have some kind of rapport with her. But occasionally, a woman would put up a rather flattering photo of herself in a dress, and VOOM, she gets swarmed with "Pretty eyes" or "You're beautiful!" comments left and right. According to him, bad move, because the next time you see her in person at a party, she might be drawn to YOU because you played it cool and not like the drooling numnuts, because you did something different. Apparently, he learned this from one of the David De'Angelo lessons. True or false? Women on Facebook are rather unfriendly anyway, only seeking validation and dumb men actually fall into the trap of giving them it. I don't waste a minute with Facebook dames because they're all coming from the same old fashion avenue.
mesmerized Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I wouldn't go out or keep seeing a guy who didn't compliment me at all. I want to know he finds me attractive and although compliments are not the only way to show it, verbal affirmation is still very important for me and for most women.
threebyfate Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 Apparently, he learned this from one of the David De'Angelo lessons. True or false?I sincerely urge you to test DeAngelo's and all other PUA suggestions in real life. Your empirical data should help to formulate your own opinion on this matter.
Author irc333 Posted August 1, 2012 Author Posted August 1, 2012 If you are going to tell a woman she is beautiful, tell it to her to her face. That's pretty rare. Complimenting a woman's appearance on FB--well a lot of guys do that. And when it comes to doing something to get a woman's attraction, well, if it's something that 50 other guys did before you that very day then it's not likely to make her attracted to you. irc, I keep giving you this advice and you keep ignoring it: Have you considered moving? THought about it, but wouldn't be economically feasable.
Author irc333 Posted August 1, 2012 Author Posted August 1, 2012 Women on Facebook are rather unfriendly anyway, only seeking validation and dumb men actually fall into the trap of giving them it. I don't waste a minute with Facebook dames because they're all coming from the same old fashion avenue. Speaking of Which........
Pyro Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 never, ever, ever listen to wtf a woman says, it`s all bs, they just talk for their own amusement I am guessing that you are single. Compliments are fine people....just don't kiss her as$
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