dannykeyz831 Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 The more you get dumped, the less miserable you get during nc? I've been dumped 4 times. 1 time from my first ever gf and 3 times from my current ex gf (ya i know but that's beside the point ) and currently on day number 7 of nc. Even though I think about her every 5 minutes, for some odd reason I don't really feel that hurt and when I do feel it its because I miss that companionship. I miss her presence..not really her. Her friend texted me earlier on her behalf to say thanks for some songs and movies I had recorded for her. I didn't respond though.
KatZee Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 I think you just learn how to cope with the emotions better with each subsequent split. When it's your first, it's the worst. You have all these feelings and no idea what to do with them. You're also young, naive, full of hopes and you still believe the world is sparkles and fairies. As you get older and you experience more, you learn more. You learn how to cope better... you grow, you change, you realize what it is and isn't that you want. "The first cut is the deepest." 1
satyr Posted July 31, 2012 Posted July 31, 2012 yea love is just a state of ones mind until unless u r a deeply emotional person Most people should be able to get over breakups within in 2-3 months with occasional memories flashing in between odd days and i dunno if u noticed but mornings people are generally vulnerable to wat id like to call the break up blues...but ones u get over and used to them it isnt a big deal anymore.... Imagine after me n my 1st girlfrnd broke up i used to feel so troubled due to memories springin up every now and then,we even planned to get married n have children in the future.... how funny was that,to think of it now it was so silly of us to make such plans But watever it was i had a good experience of life...after all life is nothin but just memories. 1
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