todreaminblue Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 theres no match for me. even a fat slob will run away and prefer to be alone. I am so calm I am zen so I can answer your dilemma if you call a woman a fat slob chances are she would run away from you.You have to treat a woman well for her to stick around you have to have a crap load more confidence than you do to attract any woman.They dont pop out of the tv set and they are not blow up dolls you can pull out ....if that is your thing though enjoy........you have to make an effort dont feel sorry fro yoruself bust a move....ohhh ohh yeah ohhh....come on break it down for me now......best wishes....deb
Cracker Jack Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Sounds like you're exaggerating things there. Anyway, it's clear you're not happy with your situation; so unless you're okay continuing with your current aptitude, I suggest you stop feeling sorry for yourself and focus on improving. Yes, even at the age of 41 it's possible. 1
Author fortyninethousand322 Posted August 1, 2012 Author Posted August 1, 2012 Also, I forgot to add: what suggestions would you have for anyone who is inexperienced? Should I just go out to a bar and kiss some drunk girl? Have a random hookup like another poster is apparently? I don't generally find ideas like "dating down" to be very useful because I don't know what "down" is to me.
Cracker Jack Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 what exagering? theres no way cause even if i improve all the women will still hate me baucse i didn't have sex a long time ago. And how would you know this if you don't put in any effort to change your situation?
Cracker Jack Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 But what's the point in going through every thread repeating yourself? I understand that you're not experienced and feel down about it. However, what you're doing right now isn't helping. Go talk to a woman and don't place so much emphasis on winning or losing. Just approach a woman and talk to her normally. The first step is making yourself more comfortable around women, which includes getting out of your head and trusting yourself. I'm sure if you say hi to a woman and let her know she looks beautiful, she won't mace you or call the police to chase you off. Give it a try.
Cracker Jack Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Gonna have to explain why men don't like you. I'm not understanding that one. Also, you're not a loser! Give it a try anyway.
todreaminblue Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 someone else used fat slob and i just copied it. why are you blaming me. i always get blamed. women blame me for what other men did to them a lot just cause i'm a man. i've never called a woman a fat slob. i can't have confidence cause i've failed every time. women don't like me cause i'm awkard and bad socially and don't have a lot of friends and all these reasons. they're angry at me that i haven't had sex or gotten dates before. i got none online and none offline. if i bust a move or flirt i'd scare her so bad she could call the cops. i'm afraid cause i'm not normal. there is no one on this board who is less normal then me including you .....smilin.....so with that in mind what would you want to do to me if i was standing right next to you......think soft hips soft lips and large eyes smiling at you what would you say to me....go for it you have my attention I wink....its a sure thing its cool ......now its your turn i am waiting
SJC2008 Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Inexperience to a woman equals two things: 1) He'll never be able to get me off 2) Once he gets his exp he'll leave me for someone better.
todreaminblue Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 i'm a loser before i even say hi. men don't ike me and women don't like me. just forget it. why did i come to this hell hole filled with angry women. hey there just wondering how old you were......i think i may have jsut doen something naff which is usual for me........its ok dont worry about the other post.I was going to show you how to....ummmmm date .....if you need to talk let me know ....hugs to ya....deb
todreaminblue Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Inexperience to a woman equals two things: 1) He'll never be able to get me off 2) Once he gets his exp he'll leave me for someone better. unless it is impossible for him to beat........then all is cool
SJC2008 Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 unless it is impossible for him to beat........then all is cool No comprende, please elaborae...
SJC2008 Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Men AND women need experience. We both need to experience anger, hurt, pain and of course the ups and downs of life. My parents were high school sweethearts, never dated anyone else but each other, and apparently never did IT until they were married. I couldn't imagine that, but that was a different era. I find men who are inexperienced are rather uptight and want someone who is lesser than they are. I think that's how I've become rather jaded with men out there, because they are hiding the fact that they are inexperienced and don't want to admit it. But that's just my take on it. The ups and downs of life lol you want it you got it. An alcholic father who was verbally abusive and a mother who was cold and unaffectionate and I could never please her. I was my nephews fater for the first 5 years of his life when his mother my sister was whoreing and coking with *iggers who fed her bull **** and she ate it up. I would worry sick to my stomach literally because she was out with him and never called or anything so how's that for ups and downs? So I only stuck my cock in one hole in my life so I haven't seen the ups and downs?? How about this for an anecdoete: I go to the point where I worried aobut her until I'd wanna puke and I started some weird habit where I would rub my eyebrows and I dam near rubbed them off no joke. I googled it and it's some weird form of some nervous habit or something. My dad was diagnose with cancer at 52 52 when I was 20 and I seen him every day in the hospital until the day he died so how's that for ups and downs?? I dropped off my nephew to daycare every day and picked him up after work includind and picked up my mother. I gave myself to my family and that kid whom I would of adopted if I was finacially stable and do you think some human with a cunt between her legs ever gave a ****? Ummmmm.....No. I'm some weird freak who besides getting laid once and freaking a girl in his car is an inexperienced loser who won't get her off or because she is so insecure that once he gets his exp will leaver her for something better. Women are so insecure it makes me wanna puke and I'd never lie to a woman or lead her on but it seems like the only way to get between her legs is to do so so I'm gonna start doing so and I bet I get it wait and see.
SJC2008 Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 (edited) The ups and downs of life lol you want it you got it. An alcholic father who was verbally abusive and a mother who was cold and unaffectionate and I could never please her. I was my nephews fater for the first 5 years of his life when his mother my sister was whoreing and coking with *iggers who fed her bull **** and she ate it up. I would worry sick to my stomach literally because she was out with him and never called or anything so how's that for ups and downs? So I only stuck my cock in one hole in my life so I haven't seen the ups and downs?? How about this for an anecdoete: I go to the point where I worried aobut her until I'd wanna puke and I started some weird habit where I would rub my eyebrows and I dam near rubbed them off no joke. I googled it and it's some weird form of some nervous habit or something. My dad was diagnose with cancer at 52 52 when I was 20 and I seen him every day in the hospital until the day he died so how's that for ups and downs?? I dropped off my nephew to daycare every day and picked him up after work includind and picked up my mother. I gave myself to my family and that kid whom I would of adopted if I was finacially stable and do you think some human with a cunt between her legs ever gave a ****? Ummmmm.....No. I'm some weird freak who besides getting laid once and freaking a girl in his car is an inexperienced loser who won't get her off or because she is so insecure that once he gets his exp will leaver her for something better. Women are so insecure it makes me wanna puke and I'd never lie to a woman or lead her on but it seems like the only way to get between her legs is to do so so I'm gonna start doing so and I bet I get it wait and see. And I was the one who picked him up when his bastard father said come get him or I'm gonna put him in the hospital and when I showed up he was there with all his clothes in a black trash bag. Try explainging that to a 5 year old about wtf just happened. I was there for everything but my only problem is that on top of all that **** no kid or person should have to go through while some guy was getting steady cunt and got his "expericence" that such which women long for and I'm missing the boat because I was so ****ed over in life along with my nephew and are looked down upon becuase pussy is so easy to get so go **** yourself I'd lick your clit until you would have a sizeure but becase I have red hair and don't walk like a hard ass you think I'm afarid of the pussy jokes on you. Edited August 1, 2012 by SJC2008
SJC2008 Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I'm so sick of these bitter men and women on these forums because they have been burnt by a man or woman get a life. You're just a grain of sand in my world. Yeah it makes me wanna puke that if a chick is remotely attractive yet chubby/chunky ther is a strong possiblily that she'll be with a SKINNY guy but **** I've been through a lot more than that in my life I can take anything. "Oh but you've never had your heart broken", mabye not by a woman but it's been broken enough I can assure you that. My sister has had so many breakdowns she has been to almost every major hospitcal in the city and I live in Houston which is the 4th largest city in the US and has a good rep for the medical distrcict. The first time I cried but it's such a shame that you just get use to it and the well is dry so take that for your man strength and confidence becasue I can take anything that life has to throw at me and I mean anything becuace I already HAVE and any woman who sizes me up as weak or too nice has another thing coming becasue she has no idea how strong I am and what I have been through. But the bottom line is that I have only stuck my cock in one hole and none of the aformentioned matters tell me I'm wrong please do.
MrCastle Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I don't care at all and find experience to be a pretty overrated concept in the world of dating. I can get on board with experience when it comes to jobs, or to life lessons in general, but not dating.
todreaminblue Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 No comprende, please elaborae... underlayunderlay ....ok If T H E W O M A N H A S U N B E A T A B L E E X P E R I E N C E T H E N I T I S I M P O S S I B L E F O R H I M T O B E A T A N D T H A T S L O G I C
todreaminblue Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 thread rage................... cool lets make it a thread rave woooop wooop shes a very special girl from her head down to her toenails....that girl is really kinky ....superfreaky yeaaaaaaaaaaah heheheh
todreaminblue Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I don't care at all and find experience to be a pretty overrated concept in the world of dating. I can get on board with experience when it comes to jobs, or to life lessons in general, but not dating. arent you all fuzzy and puppyish today mr castle have you come to join the thread rage .........please sir, step right in take a load off those boots ......the rage will continue after the following commercials the girl is really kinky shes alright yeah that girls alright to me......yeaaaaaaaah hehehehe..slinkslinkslink......gone
MrCastle Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 arent you all fuzzy and puppyish today mr castle have you come to join the thread rage .........please sir, step right in take a load off those boots ......the rage will continue after the following commercials the girl is really kinky shes alright yeah that girls alright to me......yeaaaaaaaah hehehehe..slinkslinkslink......gone I'm always fuzzy. And reading your posts always makes me fuzzier
O'farrell Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 I would say even 18. What GUY hasn't even kissed at 18? When I was 17 I did the same thing I did now. Even then drunken girls from all around the world who are staying a night in SF's union square area would always come to me. I would ask them how old they thought I was, and subtracted 2 years of their guess. I was always able to be 20. I bull****ted everything about my life. I was always successful. Even to this day I do the same thing. I have never had a genuine kiss. I don't know what the problem is. Girls always just seemed to ignore me. Idk if I made them nervous, intimidated them, or they expected to be approached. Whatever it is, it stayed with me until today and now the only thing I like is strippers, hookers, and drunken sluts. Plenty of 8-9/10s here in frisco. I don't like kissing, I like biting. If a girl can't give me a decent handy, I get pissed and leave. All the failure and inexperience with romantic normal relationships early in my teens and the success with the sluts, hookers, and strippers turned me this way. I don't see whats so appealing about a normal relationship. If you need someone to vent and talk to and to lean on for support your built to break imo.
Author fortyninethousand322 Posted August 24, 2012 Author Posted August 24, 2012 I guess looking back this thread didn't exactly tackle some of the things I wanted it to. I came across this article about the "hook up culture" (whatever that is) and had a very depressing thought: my total lack of experience with sex and distaste for casual sex is probably a huge turnoff for most women my age who have lots of experience with it. Thinking back, I guess I thought all those tails of sexual exploits were just people bragging/bluffing. But I guess I was wrong.
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