Rosien_HoH Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 My situation is a little strange. It's something I've never had happen before and I am completely lost. I've been dating this girl for over a month now. We get along very well and I really like her. I could see myself falling completely in love with her. But there is one thing that keeps coming up (or not coming up) that makes me hesitate. We kiss, but its usually void of passion. The few times that there is passion there (and wow, when it's there, it's really there) is when we're saying good night and I'm leaving. And even then, it's a passionate kiss but with notongue. I guess what I'm asking is this: How do I get things to move forward in that aspect? I love kissing her, but I want things to progress. I'm not talking sex, maybe eventually. But right now I'm just talking about kissing with tongue, or making out, maybe a little groping. Just something to make me feel like things are making progress. To head answer a couple of possible questions: No, she's not a virgin. Neither am I. Yes, she's definitely interested in me. Yes, she's a pretty shy and reserved girl in general.
veggirl Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 why don't you slip tongue in there when you kiss? What have you tried to do to escalate things? do you touch her, stroke her arm etc when you are out? maybe that could get her more horny to want something other than a closed mouth kiss at the end of the night. Do you have her over for movies / dinner? that's your best place to make a move...
Author Rosien_HoH Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 why don't you slip tongue in there when you kiss? What have you tried to do to escalate things? do you touch her, stroke her arm etc when you are out? maybe that could get her more horny to want something other than a closed mouth kiss at the end of the night. Do you have her over for movies / dinner? that's your best place to make a move... I did slip a little tongue in once, while she didn't exactly pull away, the kiss ended very shortly after that. I felt like she was off-put by it somehow. I touch her, I hold her, when we kiss deeply I pull her close, squeeze her sides, things like that. I've had her at my place a couple of times, but we usually go out places. And she's told me that she really doesn't like PDA. (which is fine, I don't really either)
Author Rosien_HoH Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 It's especially confusing because, in the past, with the girls I've seen, I would have already had sex with them a few times by now. I'm not used to this pace. I don't mind taking things slow, but I have no idea how to do it and when to make my move.
weallfalldown Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 why do you need tongues?..............suck on her lip.......kiss her neck and bite it.....shove her up against the wall and hold her there.....
Author Rosien_HoH Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 why do you need tongues?..............suck on her lip.......kiss her neck and bite it.....shove her up against the wall and hold her there..... Psh, I'd love to. I'm just worried about going too far with her...
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