How about we talk about MEN who won't have sex with their lady

[happydancer]

I think it's important to open the discussion about women with strong, or even NORMAL libidos and them being in relationships with someone who seems uninterested in sex. They tell you they love you, they are a wonderful partner in all other aspects but you go without sex!!! Did you find a solution to this? how do you feel?

 

SHARE. keep in mind women have wants and needs to and YES sometimes that does mean throw us up against a wall and be a man about it.

[weallfalldown]

A.you just don't turn him on

B. He's way too tired...this is genuine

C. He's gettin it elsewhere

D. you smell offputting, or have probs down there.

 

about as true as you can get!.

[weallfalldown]

or he's a botter:D

[NXS]

How about we talk about MEN who won't have sex with their lady

 

There has been numerous threads about this on LS, usually from men,but it works both ways.

 

I think it's important to open the discussion about women with strong, or even NORMAL libidos and them being in relationships with someone who seems uninterested in sex. They tell you they love you, they are a wonderful partner in all other aspects but you go without sex!!! Did you find a solution to this? how do you feel?

 

SHARE. keep in mind women have wants and needs to

 

The conclusions are:

 

1. Sex is not a 'need' because you won't die from lack of sex.

 

2. There is no obligation on either party to have sex, in fact there's no obligations at all in marriage therefore there's probably even less in a relationship. If you're not happy with your sex life then don't try to coerce the other party in any way to give you more sex, that's considered abusive. If you're not happy about it then either get a divorce (or just separate in your case), live with your forced celibacy or negotiate an open marriage/relationship.

 

and YES sometimes that does mean throw us up against a wall and be a man about it.

 

That would be sexual violence/rape punishible by imprisonment. Not a good idea for any man to take up your offer.

[Chunky]

It's funny, you never usually hear about this from the woman's perspective.

[somedude81]

It's funny, you never usually hear about this from the woman's perspective.

I do read about it from time to time, though it is never as common as from the woman not wanting sex.

[usernamecrazy]

From what I know of this, usually they are addicted to porn and find it easier to live in some stupid fantasy sex life than a real one with their wives. Seems to be a big problem these days.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

From what I know of this, usually they are addicted to porn and find it easier to live in some stupid fantasy sex life than a real one with their wives. Seems to be a big problem these days.

 

Yes, and the woman does everything possible to send him further toward the porn and further away from her. It's a great solution.