Real36 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Hey everyone, I need some opinions on what is going on here... I have been seeing (?) a co-worker for about 2 months. I know it's generally a bad idea but I was so attracted to him I couldn't help myself. He chased me for awhile then finally asked me out. Sexual relationship commenced. He is 23 and I am 30. We are also of different races. Starting out he slept over about every other night and hung out for most of the day on Saturdays. Now he still sleeps over through the week but doesn't show up til 11 pm or later. Most nights I am already in bed when he gets here. We haven't gone out on any other dates and he hasn't come over on a weekend for about 3 weeks. So I am thinking this is just a casual thing and I need to start figuring out how I am going to handle it at work when it eventually ends. Then... he asks me to go on vacation with him next month. He wants to invite his cousin and his girlfriend, too. He also started looking for an apartment, he mentioned renting the open apt. across from me twice. He gets sullen if I don't want to cuddle up when we sleep. He tells me personal things about himself and talks about what he wants in the future. I feel like I am getting mixed messages here. Are we casual or what? Could it be the age difference? Cultural? What do you think?
smellybelly Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Best approach is the simplest. Have a conversation about the status of your relationship. Be clear about what you want...
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