crazylove Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Reading lots of advice online on who should say the 3 little words first.... so...who should? ...the man or the woman? Guys...do you go running for the hills if the woman says it first, or is it a good thing? Ladies...have you said it first, and what were the consequences?!
madjac74 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Just don't say it for the first time when you are orgasming 1
Silly_Girl Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I've never said it first. I've never considered it before now though. Is it a man/woman thing? I show clearly how I feel about a man though, so it's not as though they were going out on a limb to say it, they knew I cared for them even if I wasn't quite 'there' yet. 1
Author crazylove Posted July 30, 2012 Author Posted July 30, 2012 That's what i'd be interested to know...guys...do you feel pressured if the girl says ILY first?
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I have said it first once, when I *thought* I felt it. It had an extremely positive response with guy saying it back immediately and acting super happy and close. Other times, when guys have said it, I couldn't say it back because I didn't feel it.
nessaaa Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I never said it first. Someone said they loved me recently... Do not want do not like..I didn't realize how scary those words are!!!! I didn't feel any pressure to say it back so I changed the subject. I'm not saying it unless I mean it.
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